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Saturday, September 30, 2017

Shantel's September Photo Dump

Just a quick recap of some things that I missed blogging about during the month of September. 
1.  Our beautiful new stair light fixture. We've been looking for the perfect new stair fixture for a long time because we wanted something to fill up the space a little better (better than the little mushroom fixture that came with the house). We found this beauty at Sam's Club for a super good deal and we loooove it! We'd never replaced a light fixture by ourselves before - but with some good ole' YouTubing we figured it out! (Although at one point we were both up at the very top of a super-tall ladder together, one trying to hold the super-heavy fixture up, the other trying to screw it together. It was quite a sight.) 

2. David and Lydia's "matching Jammies". 

3. Super Caleb and a big sister that already loves playing dress up with him.
 4. We had this picture taken at a wedding reception for one of David's co-workers (whose wedding announcements I designed/printed). I hung this picture on the dash of my car because I love the way it turned out and I looooove this boy. Call me a cheese, but I love him more now than I ever knew I could. I still feel like a school-girl when he calls me on the phone or tells me that he loves me. I'm lucky to have him, and glad to have this picture in my can to make me smile every time I see it.

5. Lydia's bed set up in my bedroom for the nights that David was gone on a work trip. Lydia and Austin took turns sleeping in my bed with me, and the other one slept on the toddler mattress in the corner. It was a win/win/win except for the fact that David wasn't there and that was less of a win.


6. Reading books with Grandpa Peaden. Cal is always so good to play, read, and otherwise shower these kids with attention whenever he's around. I'm so grateful for kind, loving grandparents. 

7. Austin helping me carry the library books to our car. 



8. Austin is in a huge "I can do it myself" phase. And I'm frequently surprised at how much he really CAN do. And sometimes we end up with ketchup all over everything. That's the way we roll. We're just enjoying the ride.

 9. We invited a bunch of neighborhood kids out in our front yard to help eat the rest of Austin's birthday cake, and the next day our sweet neighbors, the Warnocks, came over with a delicious treat and a stack of super darling letters saying thank you. We have great neighbors and this made my day. (Katie Warnock is the kind of mother I aspire to me, she's good and kind and teaches her kids so many good, thoughtful, and uplifting things.)


10. I hosted a Baby Shower for my sweetest friend, Ali Middleton. It was super simple, and each guest brought a freezer meal to stock her meal-supply up for after the baby comes. I just love her and I'm grateful for the good friend and example she is. I'm constantly amazed at what an incredible example of motherhood she is, and really an example of just genuine goodness.  So excited for that sweet baby to join the crew.


11. It's possible that the sweetest thing in all the land is when your five year old daughter who is just barely barely barely learning to read, memorizes her favorite book and then reads it to your baby whenever he feels sad or needs attention. This girl is such a great big sister.

Thursday, September 28, 2017

Insta-September

Some snapshots of our September:

{9.4.17}
Operation "Fastest Road Trip Ever!" was a success. To Boise, ID and back in less than 30 hours. (About 6.5 hours each way, with stops.) So worth it to celebrate my Grandpa's 80th birthday! My Grandpa Knowles is wonderful, and loves his family so much. We are lucky to have him and to be able to celebrate with him. #thesekidsaresogoodinthecar#iloveroadtrippingwiththiscrew#backintimeforchurchbutsotired

{9.9.17}
Lydia got invited to her first school-friend birthday party. I thought they had just invited everyone in the class or something, but as soon as we got there the mom told me that Lydia is his best little friend at school and that he talks about her all the time. He specifically had requested that she be on his team in the nerf gun battle. (She's talked about him, too, especially because he has similar allergies to some of her cousins.) I awkwardly hung out for a while to make sure I felt comfortable leaving her alone for the party (can we talk about that? How are you supposed to handle letting your kids play at strangers houses?) But it was so cute to see her play with her first real friend not arranged for her by me or by location. I know I post a lot about Lydia's milestones growing up, and how it makes me feel as a mom, but I hope that when my other kids read it... They know I have those same feelings about their firsts. These are just my first firsts. Now I'm rambling, but really... Growing up is so fun and also so hard!

{9.10.17}
Six months old for this sweet babe. Life with him is the perfect mixture of soaking in how little he is while being amazed at how big he is getting. It's the best. He's super chill, easy to make smile (but reserves his laugh for special times/people), and only has one rule: "Get me in my bed for the night on time and at my own home." We sure love our Baby C! #calebsamuel

{9.13.17}
Cleaning out my car (looking for my lost wallet, boo) and I found this Polaroid of David and I that we got at a wedding a few weeks ago. I sure love this guy. He is everything. Clipped the picture to my visor and I smile every time I see it. 

{9.18.17}
Purple Day at Kindergarten today. Here's the story of the muumuu: When I was in 1st(2nd?) Grade, my Grandma and Grandpa Walker went on a trip to Hawaii. They brought me back this purple muumuu and I looooved it. When it was time for school pictures, I begged my mom to let me wear it- but she said no. So rebel that I am (ha, this is the most rebellious I've ever been in my whole life), I packed that muumuu up in my backpack and told my teacher that I needed to change before pictures. Imagine my mother's surprise when I came home from school (because of course I had forgotten to change back) wearing said muumuu. Ha. Luckily my mom found the humor in the situation and bought the photo instead of being angry at me. When my mom was down here last week, she somehow started telling Lydia this story and I was able to dig through my cedar chest to find it. Lydia begged to be able to wear it for purple day. So even though it was a bit big, I couldn't really say no. Especially because my mom has said many times "I should have just let you wear it!" I try to be a mom who says yes, whenever it's possible to say yes... And secretly it's brought a smile to my face as I've watched her be so excited about it.

{9.19.17}
Family pictures be like: πŸ˜πŸ˜±πŸŒ³πŸ˜”. But no one fell in the mud today, so I'll take it as a win! Thanks for all the outfit input, we had a great mix of blue, green, and maroon. Hoping @mayfallphoto can work her magic!

{9.20.17}
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Post family picture fun at the park. Lydia loved climbing in a giant tree. Austin wanted to go down the slide a million times. Lydia and Austin played together at the end and both kept saying, "let's do our together thing", which means sliding down the slide at the same time. It was so fun. Thank you Shantel for getting outfits ready and everything set up.

{9.23.17}
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Happy birthday, Austin! I had a great day with you. We built with blocks in the morning. Went to eat pizza for lunch, and you even got a drink. Then we went to "the animal fair" (Austin accepted boondocks as a plausible animal fair). You loved the slides and skeeball and the milk jug ball toss. I love you.

{9.23.17}
Oh Austin. Three years old looks good on you. We've been celebrating all week and you've loved every second of it. Popping balloons, going on special adventures, and a few special treats along the way. (you are so easy to please: a couple of Mike and Ike's in a balloon and your face lights up like it's a huge thing). We had a rough night last night, but that meant I got to wake up cuddling you in our extra bedroom- being the first to wish you a happy birthday. You definitely know how to celebrate, and it melted my heart when you insisted that Lydia, Caleb and I should come on your birthday lunch date with Dad. You are funny, and kind, and you looooove presents. Happy birthday sweet boy, I'm so lucky to be your mom! πŸ“·:@mayfallphoto

{9.27.17}
I know it's kind of old news now, but I can't get over the fact that this boy is three! We had a little party for him on Sunday and he loved opening his presents and telling people that it was his birthday. His cake was perfect for his car-track loving heart. Initially he said he didn't want a car on it, but then requested to be able to drive his little remote controlled car on the road. All the sudden Austin feels bigger: his legs are longer, his words are clearer, his heart is more sweet. I just have to wonder what it is about a birthday that makes a child grow so much more than a regular day!? We sure love our Austin-boy.

{9.28.17}
Went to a fancy dinner last night where I got to see this guy awarded as the 2017 UACPA Rising Star🌠. One person is chosen by board members of the Utah Association of CPAs "to honor individuals that exemplify excellence and dedication to the UACPA and the CPA profession." I could not be prouder of @davidpeaden. I have to pinch myself that I am really the one that gets to go through this life with him. I know he's amazing, but it's always extra amazing to see when other people recognize that as well . Also, this dress from @shopcarissamiss 😍😍😍. (I told her I was hoping for a fancy dress for this event and she special ordered the fabric, customized the pattern, and rushed it to be ready the day before my event. It was perfect!) #eidebailleycpa

Monday, September 25, 2017

Austin's 3rd Birthday Celebrations

Having a birthday when you are three years old is soooooooo fun. It's basically the best birthday of their lives so far (mostly because it's the first one they can remember) and it's so full of excitement. Austin heard that his birthday was coming up and talked about it basically every day for at least 3-4 weeks leading up to the birthday. (Including having to endure my birthday on the 15th when it wasn't actually his birthday yet.)  He was so excited, so we tried to make it a special week of birthday shenanigans. #peadenbirthdayweek  

The best part about organizing a birthday week for a three year old is that they are just so easy to please. I put one paper in each balloon with things like "do something fun" or "eat this special birthday treat {with 3 mike and ikes included}" and he was so excited. Definitely low key - but special enough to help him feel excited and special. 

He picked going to the Farm for his "special activity". 

We had a little family party with just Lydia, Caleb, Austin, and us (mom&dad) on his actual birthday, then the following day (Sunday) we had an extended family party. We had a little bunt cake on Saturday, but I made this special "Car Track Three" cake for his big birthday. 








Sidenote: I took Lydia shopping for a birthday present for Austin and she loved it so much. She kept looking for the perfect thing that he would just love. She picked a little hotwheels car, a candy, and a stick-horse. But then when we went to Walmart to pick up a couple of things for his birthday dinner she saw a marble track and decided that she wanted to do that instead of the stick-horse. I let her buy it and told her that we could talk to Daddy about it and pick which one she wanted to give him most. After much deliberation she decided on the marble track and she gave it to him at our family party on Saturday. But then Sunday morning she asked if she could pleasssse give him the stick-horse too, at "his party today".  We are suckers, and we said yes- but I'm so glad that we did because he actually loves both. He plays with his marble track all the day long and frequently plays with his stick-horse. It's just cute - because I wouldn't have picked either of those things, but he really does love them. 

Some of the things that we wrote down during our special "Austin FHE" were: Lydia- I love to go swimming with Austin. Caleb- Austin is kind and he makes me happy. Mom- Austin gives the best hugs and he has a great sense of humor. Dad- I love Austin's happy smile when he jumps and runs around. 

Happy Birthday Austin-love. You are special to us and we are lucky to have you in our family. 

Saturday, September 23, 2017

Austin Scott: 3 Years

This guy is our favorite three year old around. Seriously, he's just the best. He makes everyone better for being around him. He's funny, sweet, and the best brother around. He makes me smile every single day. We are so lucky to have his sweet spirit in our family. 


Official Stats: (I lost these! Ugh. Hopefully I'll find them and update this.) 

Unofficial stats: Mostly size 2T things, especially pants. Some 3T shirts fit (only slightly loose). Size 7 shoes. Size 4 diapers (except: potty trained now!) Doesn't have all of his molars, but all of his other teeth have grown in. (Clothing in his 3 year pictures were 18 month pants and a 2T shirt.)

Some things about Austin at three years old: 

-I have to be honest, the #1 item on this list has got to be how much he loves his little brother. He's such a good big brother and is the perfect mix of "gentle and kind", "watch- if I put my fingers in his mouth he tries to eat them", and "but he likes it when I do a somersault on top of him!" Ha. 

If item #1 on the list is how much he loves his brother, item #2 is how much he loves playing with his sister. They play really well together. Sometimes it is running from the kitchen fridge to the love seat, sometimes it is building blocks or playing with paw patrol pups. No matter what it is he thinks his big sister is pretty great and she loves doing things with him. 

-He enjoys swimming very much. At the beginning of the summer he was a fairly nervous swimmer, but he got really comfortable swimming around in his puddle jumper and asked to go to the pool often. Sometimes he would follow Lydia around and they would play together, other times he was just as happy to play by himself in the water. 



We worked on potty training this last month! Austin was really ready, and although I was dragging my feet - we bunkered down and made it happen. He was already pretty ready, but an M&M for going pee, a Peanut M&M for going poop, and a Caramel M&M for mom anytime either of those happened made the whole thing go a lot smoother (sweeter? ha.). When he started only going half his pee/poop so he could get a treat, then going back in to finish so he could get a second treat- we decided to have a potty treat party and eat all the rest of the treats. Also, his big prize that he was so excited about was a new helmet for him to use when riding his bike. I'd say potty training was a success for this guy.


-He's my little buddy and enjoys running errands, going to the library, and is so good in the car and while we are out and about. He can do his seatbelt straps if I give him long enough. He likes to climb in and out of the van by himself and wishes that he could push the button to close his door after he is already strapped into his seat (which, he can't). 

-He has almost endless energy and loves to run aroundbut can also sit still and work on a task (toy/craft) for an incredible amount of time. He likes to play with play-doh, with his trains, his blocks or with his car track. He also loves to put things in a line. He will pull all the cans out of the pantry and make a line across the kitchen/family room, and the other day he helped me put the food on the conveyor belt at the store and I laughed when I saw that he'd made a big line. It's so him at this stage. 


-I (Shantel) took him on a date at the beginning of this month and he has talked about it several times (at random times) since then. It's so nice to spend some one on one time with him, because for all that he is a wonderful brother - he's also a very special little boy and sometimes it's good for him to know that he's special all on his own. 

-He sings this darling song "I... am... Austin-Scott-Peaden boop-boop buh-buh". Or when you ask him what his name is he says "Austin-Scott-Peaden". I really love it. 

-He basically wants to say every prayer. If someone else starts praying, he just starts repeating their words loud enough that they automatically slow down and say a sentence at a time so he can repeat their words. My favorite thing to hear him repeat are "and be kind"  and "be like jesus". When he prays on his own, he says very thoughtful prayers about being grateful for the people that we are with, or the things we were able to do, or that "daddy will be safe coming home". But at the end of every single prayer he ends with his amen long and drawn out "Aaaaaaaaaa-mmmmmmmmeeeeeennnnn" while he slowly opens his folded arms and raises them above his head like a sun. It's so funny, and although we've put a kibosh on either Lydia or Austin doing irreverent things during the prayer, especially at the beginning of the prayer - we just can't help letting him get away with the "amen" part. It's just so cute. 


-Asks "May I be excused" (may-I-be scuuuuzed?) when he'd done eating dinner and it's the cutest thing. Such good dinner-manners.

-I kind of love him running around in just his underwear. 

-One of my most successful time-filling activities with him is freezing little plastic animals in bags of water, then letting the kids take them in the back yard to get the ice to melt. I'd say it's a parenting win.

-He loves presents - and the week leading up to his birthday he asked me almost every day when he was going to be able to open his presents. 

-Austin loves playing and Grandma and Grandpa Peaden's house. He knows that Grandpa will give him a fruit snack and read him a book. (He asks for his fruit snack almost immediately after arriving there.) We are certainly blessed with wonderful grandparents for our children.
-Also, he loves books. His favorite book is the "puff-puff chug-chug" book (The Little Train that Could). He also loves the "How to Train your Train" book. We got a "Lucky Ducky" (fiction) book and a "Street Sweepers" (non-fiction) book at the library and he loved them both. When it was time to take them back to the library, he was understanding but sad. Then he walked around the bookshelves looking for another copy of them both. After being unable to convince him to pick a different book, we went back up to the main desk and asked if they would dig them out of the drop box so we could borrow them again. 

-He insists on doing things by himself. He is pretty good at pouring his milk (if the gallon is at least half-empty), but sometimes it gets away from him. Childhood is supposed to be messy, right? 

-I took him pre-shopping for birthday presents to see what he wanted. Of all the things on the wall - he found this cleaning cart and loved it. I laughed. We ended up not getting this cart - because he decided that he'd rather have a little vacuum instead. And he's really happy with it. 

-He qualifies most things with I'm little/I'm big depending on the size that is needed. "I'm big, I can do this! Cuz, I'm big!" or "I'm little I can fit in this box. See I'm little."

-Says "I like hot things" and "I like spicy things" which are both true. It's the best at dinner time when he goes to take a bite of food that's still a little too hot and he says "but it's okay, because I like hot things." Or when he asks for more salsa because "I like spicy things!" 
-He fell and chipped his front tooth one day when he was washing his hands in the bathroom. He was pretty upset, not really crying - but definitely worried. As soon as I realized what happened I snuggled with him and called the dentist. He got us in first thing the next morning and within a half hour the dentist had examined the tooth and fixed the chip. I realized about the time that we were leaving the office that I didn't get a single picture of his chipped tooth, and now it looks exactly the same. Ha. I'm grateful for good insurance and medical procedures. It wouldn't have been terrible to leave it, but he's much happier with a whole tooth again.

-We took family pictures at the same time we did Austin's 3 year photos, and the low-light was Austin faceplanting into the mud. He was running away toward the park when I called for him. He looked over his shoulder and smack landed right into a huge bog of mud. Yikes. I asked the photographer to take a couple of pictures - because isn't that something you laugh about years later? 

-Loves his daddy. The other day at like 10 in the morning he was like "I hear Daddy! Daddy is home!" I think he thought he heard the garage door going up. It took a lot for me to convince him that David was still at work, and he was pretty disappointed. David is so good at playing with him and making him laugh and treating him like he's so important. I love to watch the two of them together and I'm glad they have each other. 

(From David): The thing that I will remember most about Austin at age 3 is his abounding positive energy. He has an infectious smile and it is impossible not to join him.

We love you our Austin-boy. Happy three years!