Goals:
We did not have big goals this year, here is what we wrote at the beginning of the year.
So I guess this year will be a low key goal year, and that's just fine.
I would say, our family goal is to be kind to each other, spend quality time together, and transition to our new life as a family of 6! And that's a big enough, wonderful enough goal for us.
I think that adequately describes how we were feeling and what we tried to do. I feel like we were successful. I think that Shantel would agree that at times this was a difficult year. Difficult to know how to be the best parent we can be, difficult to give all the energy needed to care for this family, difficult to get through the times when when felt down and depressed. However, through it all, we strove to draw close as a family and to our Savior.
Homeschool:
This is one of the biggest successes of the year in my mind. Lydia has been thriving in homeschool. She did fantastic through the spring and into summer. Trying to homeschool with a new baby proved to be a huge challenge and Shantel and Lydia both took on that challenge head on. They had a great fall and Lydia continues to do great. Austin made tremendous progress in his growth and especially in his speech therapy. Shantel was able to balance caring for all four of our amazing Children.
10 Year Anniversary:
Shantel and I celebrated in our 10th anniversary. In truth- we did it without a ton of fanfare. However, I think that is one of the strengths of our marriage. Our love and togetherness is not built on big events, but instead in little moments day to day. Our love grows because we love to laugh and talk and just be together...all the time. At the grocery store, doing dishes, playing games or on vacation...we just love to be together. A 10 year anniversary trip is in the works when Lucy gets old enough.
Lucy:
We welcomed Lucy Holland to our family in June and absolutely adore her. Not just us, but each one of the kids loves and adores and hugs and kisses her all the time. She is so sweet and beautiful. She is such a good baby and fills our home with happiness. We are so grateful to have her in our family and that she arrived safely and healthy.
Lucy's Eyes:
In August/September we began to worry about Lucy's inability to track objects with her eyes or focus on anything. She could not tell we were there unless we talked or made noise. In truth, we have just begun on this journey with her, both her life, and her vision. We have loved so much being with her. We have learned a lot and she has improved so much in her vision. She was diagnosed with Nystagmus and Albinism and we have learned a lot and developed our faith in the Lord. We love Lucy and are so grateful for her.
We decided in August, that we really wanted to finish the storage room and close off the Utility room so that our kids could play in the basement more easily. Next thing we knew, we had decided to finish the whole basement. It has been so much fun to work with my Dad (and Bruce) in the basement. Shantel and I have worked hard and made a ton of progress, and have completed framing, electrical, HVAC, bathroom, plumbing and done our inspection. We also had someone come to hang drywall and do mudding and painting. We are so excited to be able to use our basement space. Scott and then my Dad and Bruce have spent countless hours helping us, and I am so grateful.
As we say goodbye to 2019 and look back on our successes, we can't wait for everything that 2020 will bring.





















































