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Monday, April 29, 2013

Dinner at Chilis

A couple of weeks ago we were able to go out to dinner with David's parents. They were so sweet to offer to take us out because we house-sat their home while they went on vacation. Lydia has come with us out to eat before, when she was really little, but she's never really eaten with us. She did awesome and was so cute. 

Appetizer: Cheerios. 



Lydia got her own little order of mashed potatoes and she loved them. I couldn't feed her quickly enough and she kept sneaking little handfuls while I was trying to eat my own dinner (between her bites). 



We had a really great time and ate some really good food. Thanks Cal and Sue!

p.s. Thanks for all the comments on my last post. I need to figure out how to reply to them. I appreciate knowing that you guys are reading and now I have a better idea of where my viewership stands. 

Saturday, April 27, 2013

Five things on Saturday... night.

1. You may remember this little fella at that used to sit at the top of our blog:
(It reads: **Attention anyone who reads "The Peaden Life"** The author, Shantel, is suffering from a severe case of "Needstobevalidated-osis". The only way for her to overcome this terrible illness is for you to leave a comment at the bottom of her posts. It can just be "I read this post." It can even be "I think your posts are lame, but I read them anyway." She just needs some serious validation. Thank You!)

I posted it as a joke when we first started our blog and then ended up leaving it for who knows what reason. I actually grew kind of attached to it because I think it's funny and because I really do love to get comments. Recently I got a comment from a friend, Molly, that just said "i read your blog!" repeated about 60 times. I laughed out loud.  However, I realize that it's probably a little silly and immature. So i decided to take it off. The only thing is - I really do like getting comments. I try to comment on the blogs that I read because I know that I like knowing when someone reads my post.  I know people are reading - but my blog details read like this: 

You can see only a fraction of the people reading our blog are actually commenting. Only two out of 39? What did the other 37 people think? (I realize that some of these are probably repeat people, but we don't track our own pageviews so it still means that a lot of people are reading.) 

I'm not too worked up about this - but the reason that i'm writing about this is that I recently hit the limit for people who can access my private blog. As new people have asked to be added, I've been going through and deleting people that I don't think follow anymore. I'm always worried that I'm going to delete someone who reads but just doesn't comment. So the moral of the story - if you want to keep from getting deleted, comment once in a while so I know you are following. 

Sorry for this random first item- it ended up being longer than I intended - in our real news of the week:

2. For David's birthday I got him a pair of Pass-of-all-passes. We've been mini-golfing once, but because October is at the beginning of winter (and the beginning of busy season) we haven't really been able to use them much. We were so excited when we realized that Monday was one of the Real Salt Lake soccer games that we could go to for free. After David got home from work, we ate a quick dinner and then we bundled up and headed to the game. I can't tell you how much I loved handing the guy our passes and then having him hand us two front row seats without any monetary exchange. It was awesome. 
Lydia's first soccer game! And really, my first real soccer game. I've watched little kids play soccer, but I've never been to a real soccer game (although I have watched a few on TV with David). And when I say real, I mean... actual. Not necessarily Real. That is hard to type out and make sense. 


It was a little chilly. The wind was blowing and even though we were bundled up with coats and a couple of blankets it was still a little cold. Lydia didn't like the idea of staying under her blankets because she wanted to be moving around. The best part of the night was when a family came and sat behind us and Lydia let me wrap her  up and cuddle with her while she watched the kids talking to each other. (There were lots of "Umm, that baby is staring at me" 's and  "Seriously, she won't look away!"'s - I tried not to laugh and silently thanked them for providing her with entertainment.) 
Our awesome seats at the game. 


We had a really fun time, even though we didn't stay for the whole thing. We packed up just a few minutes before halftime (about 45 minutes) and headed home because Lydia was getting pretty cold and tired. But it was totally worth it and we would definitely go again. 

3. Thursday was HBM's annual "End of Busy Season Party". This year the party was held at the Boondocks in Layton. We dropped Lydia off with David's parents in West Jordan and then made the 40 minute trek to the party. 

 I asked David to describe it in three words and he said "Awesome, spin-out, fast." Then he said "Really... It. Was. Awesome." Haha. You can see that we had a good time. 
It was worth every mile. We started out by chatting with some of David's co-workers while we stuffed ourselves with pizza. Up next were some fairly intense go-kart races. We really like the people that David works with and so we had a good time talking to them in line and then racing out on the track. This Boondocks has a couple of pretty fun racetracks and they let you go for a decently long period of time. Last year I was SO pregnant, so we stuck to the mini-golf portion of the fun center. (It probably wouldn't be advisable for a 8 1/2 months along pregnant woman to drive a go-kart. The volcano at the end of our mini-golf game almost put me into labor.) This year I was excited to be able to get out and race and we both had a really good time. After a while we were ready to head back inside so we played some arcade games (David rocked me at skee-ball and I beat him at basketball) then headed to the bowling alley. We both bowled great! David scored a 149 and I scored a 115. That may not be great for some people, but we felt pretty good about it. We decided to head back out to the racecar track before it got completely dark and I'm so glad that we did. We had some of the most epic races of the night, including a neck-and-neck race with one of the partners (Paul) which ended up with me spinning out in the middle of the track and being rammed into 4-5 times before they could come and pull me back the right way. It was awesome. We ended the night with another game of bowling and then a few last arcade games. 

We are so grateful for HBM for putting on such a fun party. It's so nice to know that (for the most part) busy season is behind us and we have the summer to look forward to. (Yay for half-day Fridays!) I appreciate their effort to say thank you to their employees for working so hard. We had a fun time hanging out with all of David's friends and coworkers and can't wait for the Summer Party. 

4. You may or may not already know that I have been looking for a swimsuit for Lydia for ages. I worked myself into a tizzy one day stressing about how so many of the baby swimsuits are made to look so mature and... "sexy". Grr. Why would my 12 month old baby need a padded/ruched bustline? She doesn't. *cough* Sorry, back on topic. I wanted it to be cute, without being too "adult" but I also wasn't willing to pay $20 (or more). Finally... FINALLY... I found the perfect suit. It's navy and white stripes with a little red flower at the top and I love it. It's got pretty little ruffles along the top and as a bonus it matches a cute little swim skirt that I got in a bag of clothes from my mom! (The skirt is navy with a little red belt- darling.) I could practically sing I am so happy. I paid a little more than I was hoping to pay. ($12) But it really was worth it.  Sooooo worth it. 
 In fact, the whole shopping trip was super successful. (Sue came with me and I told her that she must be my good luck charm.) In preparation for Lydia's 1 year pictures next weekend, I found some darling little silver shoes, a pretty white jacket/bolero, and a yellow scarf for me. I still haven't decided exactly what Lydia is wearing, but it is narrowed down to two outfits that are both yellow and blue. I figure that either way, if I wear a yellow scarf and David wears a blue shirt it will be really pretty. I hope so.
Again, can I just tell you how excited I am for that little swimsuit? Now I just have to somehow hold off until our pool opens next month. Whose bright idea was it to not open the pool until after Memorial Day? I want to go swimming NOW! (Impatient much? - Yes.)

5. To finish off our wonderful week, David and I were blessed enough to be able to go to the temple today. Wendy and Sam offered to watch Lydia for us, even though they had an extremely busy day themselves. Before we had Lydia we never missed a month of attending the temple, and although I knew it would be hard after Lydia was born- I thought that we would just make it work. But, it's been much harder than I thought. There are so many other things that you have to do that it's pretty easy to use up all of your babysitting passes for the month and then it's hard to ask someone to watch your baby for 2-3 hours. Anyway, we definitely want to to better - because we love attending the temple. We are so grateful that Lydia was taken such good care of and that we were able to go. I love the feeling of peace and comfort - and also the desire to be a better person - that comes from the temple. 

Today I've been filled with an overwhelming feeling of gratitude for my life. I have so many good things - especially a wonderful husband and loving baby girl. Life can be hard, but it can also be SO so good. And those good things are the things that count most of all. 

Saturday, April 20, 2013

Lydia and the Orange Balloon.

I missed out on writing yesterday's Friday Five due to an incredibly busy day (including an A/C repairman coming to hook back up our A/C after it was removed so the landscapers could squeeze between our houses into the back yard, a nice visit with my dad, a quick trip to play with Ashley, Carson, and Elsie, a Red Ladder Design consultation, a little trip down to UVU for the Women's Expo with Bekah, Adaliah, and Elizabeth, and dinner/games with Jeff and Kaylee.)

However, this morning I wanted to give you a fun little glimpse into our life with this precious little girl.  You see, our awesome new camera can take "continuous" pictures. This means that if you hold down the button it will take a series of 20ish pictures in just seconds. When you flip through them on the camera it looks like a stop motion video. You may have noticed that a lot of our pictures that we post have little series' that are fairly similar - and it's probably because we just couldn't choose from the pictures. I love it because you get to see all the little faces that she makes and you can really get an idea of her personality. Usually I just pick one or two pictures, but today I wanted to share a series of pictures that I took while she was playing with her favorite orange balloon. Enjoy. 

















Love this girl! 

Thursday, April 18, 2013

We sprang a leak.

So...

Several weeks ago I was in desperate need of a nice hot shower. I had been playing with Lydia all day and hadn't been able to make it happen during her naptime. So around four o'clock I decided to bring Lydia in the bathroom with lots of little toys and attempt to shower while she was playing. It actually was fairly successful, although the last half of my shower consisted of me poking my head out of the shower door every 30 seconds or so while Lydia sat by the door and fussed. I felt pretty awesome that I had accomplished such a huge feat - showering while my baby was awake. I dried my hair and we headed downstairs to play. I turned on Pandora and we were dancing around to some song on "Toddler Radio" when I felt a drop on my arm. At first I thought that Lydia had spit up or something to that effect, but upon further inspection... I found this: 



The fairly large water spot on my rug led to the discovery of this:  

I immediately felt my stomach drop. A water leak in my brand new ceiling?!?! Really?


I grabbed a bowl to place under the leak and immediately called the warranty service center for McArthur homes. Ironically, I had just contacted them the previous day because we realized that we were missing an extra plug in our kitchen island that we had requested and paid for. They had just replied a few hours earlier with a very nice and professional response that they would be by on the following Monday to add that plug. (I'm pretty sure that my house heard me complaining about the plug and was like "Hey buddy, if you want to complain... I'll give you something to complain about.") Unfortunately it was JUST after five o'clock and they were gone for the day. I left a frantic message, and then called David.

Poor David. Earlier in the day he told me that he was going to have to work until 7 or 8, but when I called him he decided that he needed to come home to help. He had to work extra hard the next few days to make up for that lost time. But, it was a pretty serious concern! We'd only been in our house for less than a month and a half and already we were having water leaking through the ceiling.

I dug around in all of our piles of paperwork that we received from McArthur and found an emergency warranty number. No answer, but I left a message. Then I found something that said if it was a true emergency that we could call the plumbing company directly. At this point, the water had finally slowed to a stop. We were still concerned and so we called the plumbing company to see what they recommended. (Besides, what is a true emergency anyway?) They said we were probably okay now, and that they would send someone out in the morning. We were okay with that, and just avoided using any water in our bathroom for the rest of the night. (Thank goodness for two other bathrooms in this beautiful house.) The next morning I got a call from Glen @ McArthur, who said that he wanted to come and take a look before the plumbers stopped by. Apparently, they had a few other leaks in the last couple of months because of a faulty shower insert (or something like that) and he wanted to make sure that wasn't it before sending the plumbing guys over. He stopped by soon after and informed us that our shower insert was perfectly fine and that he would send the plumbers over asap.

This whole time, I was thinking that it must be an actual plumbing pipe, because the water leaking was actually about 8-10 feet away from the wall... a good distance away from where the shower was. But I thought it must be connected to the shower because it had started leaking after my shower. Glen gave us the go-ahead to use the toilet/sink - but asked us to avoid the shower until the plumbers could come look at it.

The plumber arrived the following afternoon. (Coincidentally, this was the same day that a refrigerator repairman came to fix the unbalanced freezer door/broken fridge door AND our landscaping crew built our retaining wall with large boulders and an awesome backhoe in our backyard.) He went upstairs and turned on the water in the shower for five minutes while we came down and waited to see if anything would happen. Nothing. He turned off the shower and made a small hole in the ceiling underneath the shower. Immediately, water started pouring from the hole. Pouring.

The water kept up a steady stream for an hour and twenty minutes. The plumber man was shocked. He kept repeating "I can't believe how much water is in there." Several times he remarked that he was amazed that our whole ceiling hadn't collapsed on us. Apparently there was a month and a half's worth of water that had been hanging out in our ceiling for weeks and weeks. The insulation that we placed in the ceiling acted like a giant sponge and held the water until it was too saturated to hold anymore, and then the water found a seam and started leaking out. 
Here he is just staring at the water. He was afraid to cut out the whole piece until the water stopped, but he cut several holes to help draining and he even brought in his wet-vac to suck the water out. I couldn't help but laugh at the whole situation. The plumber left a few times and every time he came back and said "It's still draining?", I couldn't help but laugh. It seems it was the only thing to do. What a mess. 




Finally- after several hours of draining, cutting, and removing the sheetrock and insulation - the plumber was able to get to the root of the problem. The drainpipe connected to the shower was cracked. If you look at this picture closely (click to zoom in) you can see a little piece of light from the upstairs. It was a hole about the size of a pea and was leaking water like crazy. I wish that I would have taken a picture of it after he got his tools and pulled it out. The crack went around more than 1/2 of the pipe, with a big chunk missing where the hole was. If you pulled the pieces apart it would leave a giant gaping mouth looking thing in the drain pipe. 

Luckily, after he found the problem - it was fairly easy to fix. He did his thing, cleaned up, and cleared out. Then he came back the next day to verify that the seal was holding and give us the okay to use the shower again. I was relieved that it had been so easy, and grateful that McArthur was covering the whole thing under our warranty. I would have been much more upset if we were paying for it. 

We basically lived with that gaping hole in the ceiling for the next two weeks. I was surprised when I couldn't find any pictures of it - but we really avoided spending much time in that room because it was pretty chaotic. The couches were both moved, the chaise was tucked into the corner by the tv and there were piles of sheets hanging around waiting for the next time they would need to be used. This was the best picture that shows a glimpse of the disarray. 
 
Luckily, Lydia is a happy baby and didn't seem to mind the fact that half the family room furniture was temporarily placed on the landing of the stairs leading to the basement, or that the room was arranged funny. It just gave her more room to crawl around. 

Finally, after everything was all dried out (we hope) - the sheetrocker came and made an even bigger hole. He cut out the space under the shower all the way down to where the leak made itself manifest. Then he placed new sheetrock to make our ceiling whole again. One thing that we thought was really cool: After he had cut the hole, he remarked that he hadn't been told that he needed to put insulation in the ceiling so he hadn't brought any. I told him that we had put the insulation in ourselves, but we didn't expect him to replace it. We had considered going and buying more so we could fill the area, but we decided it wasn't worth buying a whole package just for that little section. He seemed okay with that, but said that he was going to check and see if they had any extra. He came back a while later with several large pieces of insulation and stuck them up in the ceiling before he sheetrocked over the hole. I was so impressed and grateful! I must say - we weren't thrilled when we found a water leak in our brand new house, but McArthur has definitely taken care of us. Things like this happen - but it is the way that the workers treated us that have made the process so nice. They have all gone out of their way to be nice and accommodating. We are grateful for the insulation, even though we didn't expect it. 





After the sheetrock was put in, he taped and mudded it. Then, it was time for the texture to go up. I so wish I would have stayed downstairs to see how he did this. I will forever wonder that the process was. I was impressed that he made an effort to line up each piece of the texture with the surrounding areas. 

The texture was placed on a Thursday. The following Monday (almost three weeks after the initial leak) the painter came by and gave us a few good coats of our pretty "Grecian Ivory". 

Now I'm happy to announce that we are finally back in business. We moved our rug, tables, and lamps up from the stairway and put everything back into it's correct positions. With the blinds, I'd say it looks almost as good as new. If you look closely you can see the place where the hole was because the texture is slightly smaller in scale than the surrounding areas. I'm a little bummed about that, because I was hoping that you would be able to see anything. Oh well. I guess you can't live in a perfect home for long, something is always going to get damaged. And that's okay. It more important to me that my house feel cozy and lived in than perfect in every way. 


And that, my friends is the story of how we sprang a leak. It has been a crazy month: we worked with five different people for the leak in our ceiling, we had people over working on our rock wall and sprinkler system, an electrician came and put in that extra plug, a refrigerator repairman from RC Willey came and fixed our fridge doors, worked with a fence guy to get a bid for a fence, and we frantically had to go to Lowes one night before an impending rainstorm for a new black-rain-water-tube because the last rainstorm had come down our raingutters and had pooled around our neighbors foundation. And that is just the home repair stuff that we dealt with. But, even with all of that - we love our house and love being homeowners. 

Just cross your fingers that this is the last of our homeowner woes for the time being. Now that we've got that mess cleaned up - we are finally ready to start hanging things on our wall. Two months in... I'd say it's about time. Yay for normal living again!