SIX years old on the SIXTH of May. A perfect Golden Birthday.
This girl has been planning her birthday celebrations for six months, I'm not even exaggerating. And do you know what has been at the top of the list each time she's talked about it? A special golden birthday cake. Her description of the cake that she wanted: "I want a unicorn on top, with narwhals all around it, and then dog bones all around the side on the bottom... and GOLD everything GOLD for my Golden Birthday." I wasn't exactly sure how to make the vision of a six-year-old's perfect golden-unicorn-narwhal-dog bone birthday cake come alive, but we did our best and in the end she told me that it was better than she had even thought it would be! (Thank you YouTube cake decorating tutorials.)
We try to do "friend birthdays" for our kids on their odd-numbered birthdays, and family parties on their even-numbered birthdays - but she was really disappointed not to have a friend party for her golden birthday, so we told her that she could invite one friend to come with us to a fun place. She had been planning to go to Classic Skating, but then her school did their PTA skating night the Monday before her birthday so we had JUST been there. (And we haven't told the kids yet, but we bought a summer-pass to Classic Skating because they loved it SO much. But we couldn't use the pass yet, so we didn't want to spend the money going there when we were going to spend so much time there this summer.) Lydia chose instead to go to Boondocks because she wanted to go somewhere that she could earn tickets and buy prizes. We loaded just a couple of dollars on their cards and let them play games, and then gave them some time to play on the playground area. Part of me thinks we just should have gone to Classic Skating anyway, but the kids had fun and I think that Lydia felt special. (At least I hope she did. There were some other kids having real birthday parties there with balloons and cake and loads of presents. I know she would have loved that, but I hope that what we did do was good for her. Oh, and David did help all of the kids win little balls from a claw-machine, and that was probably the highlight!
We also had an extended family party with both sides of the family. Cal and Sue, Amy, Kevin - Scott and Lori, Melissa, Blake, Matthew, Brooklyn, Jacob - and the Coopers, too. I am ashamed that I didn't get any pictures of anyone at the party. But they were there and Lydia felt so loved and I feel so grateful to have so many people around us who love us and our children.
I did snap this one picture of my parents playing with Caleb, which was SO cute. And Ashley posted this picture of Cal reading books to Hailey and Elsie.
I hope this girl feels all the love we have for her in our hearts and that she carries it throughout her whole life.
























































