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Sunday, November 10, 2024

200 Temples!

Jenna told us that she was going to drive all the way out to Tooele for the Deseret Peak Open House and invited us to come. I had wanted to go, but hadn't made reservations so we jumped on board.  (This was October 11). We drove out in the morning and got to walk through the beautiful temple. I loved the welcome center in the church right next to to the temple and the chance to listen to a video and hear the missionaries bear testimony of the temple. We've been to a LOT of temple open houses in the past 2 years, and I just think it's such a neat opportunity for our children to be so familiar with the temple at such a young age.  



When we were walking through, there was a tent near the exit that had some posters and information with a big sign saying that this temple was the 200th temple! What!?! We had no idea. We were so excited about this. I kept pondering this miraculous event and ended up doing some research and including this experience in a Stake Speaking Assignment that I had (except here - full talk below). 


 

When I was born there were 41 temples (the most recent temple was the Frankfurt Germany Temple). 18 of those were dedicated by then Elder Gordon B Hinkley who would become the prophet when I was 8 years old and go on to dedicate another 67 temples by 2008. I remember when the 100th temple was dedicated, the Boston Massachusets Temple in October of 2000. I was 13 years old and my family and my ward celebrated this incredible milestone. We felt like we were witnessing something amazing- like we were a part of something magnificent. In my first 13 years of life there had been 59 temples dedicated, and now there were more than 100 temples in the world! It was impactful and exciting. 


This past week my family and I were able to attend the open house for the Deseret Peaks Temple in Tooele. We were excited to learn that this temple will be the 200th temple dedicated in these latter days. 200 temples! Only 24 years after that 100 temple milestone there have been 100 additional temples constructed and another 167 announced. 


President Nelson said, “My dear brothers and sisters, do you see what is happening right before our eyes? I pray that we will not miss the majesty of this moment! The Lord is indeed hastening His work.” 



I felt so inspired after making this connection and pondering President Nelsons counsel to "not miss the majesty of this moment". I had already met with President Gardner about the upcoming changes to my calling, but I felt inspired to take this message to all the Primaries in our Stake and felt like it was a blessing that it was taking so long to make the change to the presidency because it allowed for me to organized and celebrate this incredible opportunity with our stake. My presidency and I put together a beautiful presentation about "Temples Dotting the Earth" and visited each primary in the stake to celebrate. The temple was dedicated on November 10, but we did half of the primaries on November 10 and half on November 17 - which was the day that we were officially released and the new Primary Presidency was called. There were so many tender mercies and I felt guided that this was an important celebration for our stake, and the fact that I was able to stay in my calling as Stake Primary President until we finished this celebration was so tender for me. 


I love the temple and think that it is absolutely miraculous to live in the time that is literally fulfilling prophecy that "Temples will dot the earth." 

200 Temple Presentation: https://docs.google.com/presentation/d/1257LyrgK0y3YbDfoF-rHotqPIrxrvZk-DFcMSkd1Szw/edit?usp=sharing


October 20, 2024 – PL 3 Ward + TM2 Ward

Purpose: Purpose:

● Tell the stake how your studies from Come Follow Me and the words of

President Nelson have changed you, and brought you closer to Christ.

● Invite YSAs from the wards to participate in the YSA choir for the adult session

of Stake Conference.


Good morning Brothers and Sisters, 

I am so glad to be here with you today. It is such a special opportunity for me to be here in this ward, and to be able to share my testimony with you as the Stake Primary President. 


Previous to the last session of this October General Conference, my family started discussing what we thought President Nelson would speak about. Each of us made guesses about how many temples would be announced and the topics we thought he would cover. Gathering of Israel, Temples, Peace. My daughter Lydia was so excited when her guesses were both correct: 17 temples and a talk that focused on the second coming! 


It was so powerful to hear our prophet teach us about the importance of preparing for the second coming during the same week that we were reading in Come, Follow Me about the coming of Christ to the people of the Book of Mormon. 


The Come Follow Me Manual expressed this beautiful thought:

With these words, “Behold, I am Jesus Christ, whom the prophets testified shall come into the world” (3 Nephi 11:10), the resurrected Savior introduced Himself, fulfilling over 600 years of Book of Mormon prophecies. “That appearance and that declaration,” Elder Jeffrey R. Holland wrote, “constituted the focal point, the supreme moment, in the entire history of the Book of Mormon. It was the manifestation and the decree that had informed and inspired every Nephite prophet. … Everyone had talked of him, sung of him, dreamed of him, and prayed for his appearance—but here he actually was. The day of days! The God who turns every dark night into morning light had arrived” (Christ and the New Covenant [1997], 250–51).


Those words mirrors these that our prophet shared at the close of his message to us: 


My dear brothers and sisters, in a coming day, Jesus Christ will return to the earth as the millennial Messiah. So today I call upon you to rededicate your lives to Jesus Christ. I call upon you to help gather scattered Israel and to prepare the world for the Second Coming of the Lord. I call upon you to talk of Christ, testify of Christ, have faith in Christ, and rejoice in Christ!


As I have considered the experiences that the people of the Book of Mormon had in preparing for the coming of the Savior in their day and the way he appeared to them and ministered to them, I have been strengthened in my own efforts to be faithful to him and do what He needs me to do to prepare for His coming. 


This has led me to reflect on what things I can do now and also to look at the patterns I have seen in my life. 


When I was born there were 41 temples (the most recent temple was the Frankfurt Germany Temple). 18 of those were dedicated by then Elder Gordon B Hinkley who would become the prophet when I was 8 years old and go on to dedicate another 67 temples by 2008. I remember when the 100th temple was dedicated, the Boston Massachusets Temple in October of 2000. I was 13 years old and my family and my ward celebrated this incredible milestone. We felt like we were witnessing something amazing- like we were a part of something magnificent. In my first 13 years of life there had been 59 temples dedicated, and now there were more than 100 temples in the world! It was impactful and exciting. 


This past week my family and I were able to attend the open house for the Deseret Peaks Temple in Tooele. We were excited to learn that this temple will be the 200th temple dedicated in these latter days. 200 temples! Only 24 years after that 100 temple milestone there have been 100 additional temples constructed and another 167 announced. 


President Nelson said, “My dear brothers and sisters, do you see what is happening right before our eyes? I pray that we will not miss the majesty of this moment! The Lord is indeed hastening His work.” 


It is easy to take for granted the temples that are being built at this unprecedented rate. I grew up in small town Ephrain, Utah and frequently drove by the Manti Temple. Each time my family would pass the temple, my mom would start singing “I love to see the Temple”. My love for the temple started early and went deep. As a 12 year old, the only thing I wanted for my birthday was for my parents to take me to do baptisms for the dead that very day.


 Later, I was able to participate in the Manti Pageant and had many faith-building experiences, but one of the most profound was the year that we had been suffering a dry and hot summer and our whole valley had been praying for rain. There is a scene in the Manti Pageant where there is mass chaos and confusion, people running and yelling, with fire shooting from the scenery and lights flashing. At the cue “Thunderings and quaking of the earth” we all ran to hide in the shadows of the rocks, or hunkered down on the grass in groups. There was darkness and stillness for many moments, until the music began to play and light gradually shone upon a man, standing near the wall of the temple, dressed in white. As he began to beckon the people to come to him, rain started to fall in answer to many, many prayers. In that moment, what I saw and felt was not an actor dressed up to play a sacred part - but it was the Savior of the World, bringing with him the answer to sincere prayer. I felt such love and power from God, and the act of standing up from my place of fear and shadow and walking toward him and the light and peace that surrounded him was etched into my heart forever. 


President Nelson said, “Brothers and sisters, now is the time for you and for me to prepare for the Second Coming of our Lord and Savior, Jesus the Christ. Now is the time for us to make our discipleship our highest priority.”


Each of us gets to decide what this looks like in our life but as I reflect on my experiences - I can see the blessings that have come from following the Prophet and his counsel. 


In 2018 President Nelson concluded his talk by saying “My dear brothers and sisters, construction of these temples may not change your life, but your time in the temple surely will.” 


He followed with several specific blessings:

“In that spirit, I bless you to identify those things you can set aside so you can spend more time in the temple. I bless you with greater harmony and love in your homes and a deeper desire to care for your eternal family relationships. I bless you with increased faith in the Lord Jesus Christ and a greater ability to follow Him as His true disciples.” That promise and blessing was so impactful to me that I printed it out and it hangs by my bathroom mirror.

 

As a mom of young children, serving in the temple regularly is a little tricky. However, this promise from President Nelson sank deep into my heart. I have found that making time for myself to be able to attend the temple, feed my spirit, and connect with my true purpose has been more impactful to my happiness in motherhood than anything else and has been my greatest form of self-care, spiritual or otherwise. 


In 2019 President Nelson urged members of the Church to study the Spiritual Treasures that are found in the temple and also to better understand God’s Power that flows from priesthood covenants.  He said that if we truly understood that truth in our hearts, it would change our lives. Following his counsel led me to seek and to study this topic and it did change me. I better understand my role, my access to the Saviors power, and how much the Lord loves his children. 


In 2020, amid the upsetting and life-altering COVID-19 Pandemic President Nelson encouraged: “Despite the world’s commotion,2 the Lord would have us look forward to the future “with joyful anticipation.”3” Following his counsel given during that conference enabled me and my family to testify that “there is hope and joy to be found now and in the future because of our Savior Jesus, Christ.” 


Year after year, following the counsel of the prophet has helped my family endure difficult family situations with peace, uncertainty surrounding medical diagnoses with hope, and excruciating loss with joy. 


The increased ability to cope with all of these things comes from Jesus Christ. As President Nelson said in 2023, “The Answer is always Jesus Christ.” 



Brothers and Sisters, I feel the power and truth of the words that NOW is the time to prepare for the Second Coming of the Savior. Now is the time for us to make our discipleship our highest priority. “It is neither too early nor too late for you to become a devout disciple of Jesus Christ.” 


No matter what “dizzying distractions” we have, if our focus is on the Savior - even small efforts will continue to bring us closer to him. 


I share my testimony of the power of holding an active temple recommend, even when you have different struggles in your life or are navigating difficult questions in your faith journey. In the house of the Lord, we focus on Jesus Christ. We learn of Him. We make covenants to follow Him. We come to know Him.


If now is the time to prepare ourselves, Brothers and Sisters, let us prepare. Let us rededicate our lives to Jesus Chrsit. Let us follow the call of our prophet to help gather scattered Israel and prepare the world for the Second Coming of the Savior. Let us talk of Christ, testify of Christ, have faith in Christ, and rejoice in Christ! By so doing, he will continue to bless us and not only will we witness the majesty of this time we live in, but we will be an active part of it. 


He loves us, he will be with us. He will bring us peace in turmoil, strength in weakness, and joy in sorrow. 


I say these things in the name of Jesus Christ, Amen. 



Wednesday, July 24, 2024

July Family Month - aka Cousin Month (and 24th of July celebrations)

In our stake, July is "Family Month" which means that calling-related meetings are limited and families are encouraged to spend more time together. This year the Stake President, President Bulpitt asked me to compile a bucket list of activities families could participate in. Here is what I wrote: 

The Lehi Thanksgiving Stake has chosen to implement “July Family Month” as a way to encourage stake members to intentionally focus on their family and relationships. Ward and Stake Leadership are encouraged to limit non-essential meetings. No primary and youth group activities will be held. We appreciate the time and effort that so many in the stake offer to bless others and move forward the work of the Lord. We hope that each member of the stake will take this opportunity to connect with family and neighbors and strengthen their connections and foundations of faith.

To assist stake members in doing so, we provide this list of activity ideas. We encourage individuals and families to select 3-5 items to accomplish together during the month of July.

We then had a list of activities to encourage people to participate in. Our family picked a few of them to complete - but at our house July was not only "family month" it was "COUSIN MONTH!" Jenna and Kevin planned a trip with Kevin's parents to Nauvoo for a week, which perfectly overlapped with Matt and Brooklyn's planned trip to Portugal. I volunteered to watch their girls, Juniper and Sylvie for the 21 days that they would be gone. (There was some discussion of bouncing them around from my house to Jenna's house to Mom's house - but I felt like it would be easier for them if they had a consistent place to stay). It was wonderful, we played with cousins all months long and loved it. Some of the highlights were the 24th of July parades, spending time in Lyman, going to the Thanksgiving Point gardens/museums, and just spending a LOT of time hanging out together. (Even though the Haderlies were only with us for a week, we convinced Jenna to meet up with us for the 24th of July and it really felt like we were together all month long.) I am grateful for this family of ours. I am grateful these cousins love each other, that they get to be together so much, and that our family is dependable enough to allow for world travel because those kidlets will be well taken care of by everyone in the family. 

Here are some pictures from the month: 

-We kicked off Cousin Month with a trip to Splash Summit (aka SevenPeaks) with the Haderlies and had a great time.  





-The kids got really into playing Risk. I do not love playing Risk, but they wanted to play is - so we gave them the rules and they spent hours playing in the basement. 



-Lucy and Juniper are so fun and whenever they are staying with us, I feel like I have twins. It makes me so happy to dress them up alike, and apparently my very favorite thing is taking pictures of them from behind. (The only way to tell them apart is that Lucy's hair is straight and Junipers has curl to it.) 


-Church with 10 kids (+watching the Nauvoo performing missionaries on TV)



-Dinosaur Adventure at Thanksgiving Point Gardens





-Swimming Pool




-Bedtime - David is the hero of bedtime with the cousins. We have enough beds for everyone to sleep at our house, and I love that we have space for them all. David wins all the points though because he does such a good job reading them books, telling them stories he made up, and making sure each one is taken care of. 
-I loved having Sylvie stay for so long, it made me miss having a little baby of my own. I jokingly said that maybe we should have another baby, but David shut me down SO HARD. I was vacuuming and I started crying. I had mostly been joking, but the idea being shut down so immediately and completely made my emotions get the better of me. We are really with our family at 4 kids and it feels like the right thing for us, but that just means that I will soak in any baby time I get from family and friends! 



24th of July Celebrations 
David took Lydia, Austin, Camille, and Jason to the Days of '47 float preview in Salt Lake. It's so fun to see the floats up close! 



-Ogden 24th of July Parade and Celebrations. We missed the Lehi parade (our favorite) and for a minute I thought that we weren't going to make it to any parades this summer. Thankfully we squeezed a few in and filled our parade quota for the year. I planned to take my kids + Juni/Syl to the Ogden parade, (Juniper really latched on to that and was SO looking forward to it) and I convinced Jenna to meet up with us after at the park in Ogden for 24th of July celebrations they had there. 






-Lyman 24th of July Parade 
This is our favorite 24th of July Parade - and now our family are officially residents of Lyman again. I (again) convinced Jenna to come with us to the parade in Lyman and hang out for a couple of days. The kids got SO much candy at this parade. Like SO much candy. They were in heaven. We started making plans to enter the parade next year! (Although the kids might be sad to miss out on all the candy.) After the parade, my dad bought us all lunch at the Bridger Valley celebration. 





-Fort Bridger 24th of July Celebration. 
After lunch we got to explore Fort Bridger. 








This month was filled with a lot of fun, a bunch of slow days hanging out at home, and a LOT of family. It was the perfect July for us this year.