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Saturday, March 30, 2013

March Madness

We love basketball in this house! Okay, I love basketball and Shantel loves me. But she also does enjoy watching games with me and especially picking her brackets each March. We really love march madness  Watching the NCAA tournament is the sports highlight of the year for me. Each year we have faced off in our own little Peaden Bracket challenge. In 2009, 2010 and 2011 I dominated the bracket challenge. However, in 2012, Shantel came out of nowhere to beat me and claim the title of bracket champion. 

As you can see, it was a big party when Shantel won last year, 1,350 points to my 1,200.

Once again we were really excited for the tournament and after Selection Sunday, Shantel made a giant bracket it and hung it on the wall so we could keep track of the results.

We both picked our brackets without the other one seeing so no one had an advantage. 




Shantel picked Indiana to win it all....




...and so did I! Great minds think alike. 

We even got Lydia to make her own bracket picks. I sat at the computer and told Shantel the school's colors, and then Shantel had Lydia pick between two colored blocks to make her choices. 







Here she is showing how good she feels about picking Michigan (blue) to make it to the final four. So while she picked Wisconsin to win it all (who lost on the 1st day of the tournament) she was right on with her upset pick of 4th seeded Michigan making it to the final four. 

With all the upsets this year- neither Shantel or I did awesome, in fact neither of our teams we picked to play for the championship are alive, so the results are in, Shantel 550, David 520. Shantel is your back to back champion! It looks like I will need to step up my game for next year. I'll just have to watch more college basketball next year. Which, as a side note- my bracket methodology is to watch a lot of basketball and then go off my gut. Shantel does not watch any basketball, but then she closely examines the information that pops up about each team and makes her pick. Last year I had special insider access that would tell her the percent chance of each team winning- but didn't renew this year. Shantel was so distraught when she saw she did not have access to her stats this year. I guess she did not need them, now I'll have to wait 12 more months to get back to being, bracket champion. 

Thursday, March 21, 2013

Dear Thursday,

Dear Del Taco,
I can't tell you how happy I am that we live so close to each other. I see many, many, (many,) little dates together eating your 50 cent tacos. For someone who hasn't ever really eaten at a fast food taco place regularly, I'm prepared to become your most loyal customer.

Dear Sunshine,
Your bright and happy rays bring joy to my heart (and a little bit of redness to my baby's hairless head). When I woke up this morning to a blizzard I started missing you so much - but now that you are awake and peeking through the sky I just know today is going to be a good day.

Dear Netflix,
I'm sorry that we have been neglecting you lately. We've been a bit busy. It also doesn't help that we have pretty much run out of good shows to watch on you. If you could come up with some great suggestions - I'm sure we would start spending more time with you. (After basketball season of course - so actually it may be a while.)

Dear Park by my house,
I wish that you had a swing set. And some trees. And a bigger slide. I love that you are within walking distance, but I envision having to drive into the heart of Lehi each time I want to take Lydia to a real park. I hope that we can still be friends.

Dear Oranges,
My baby loves you. She really does. However, could you please try not to stain every single item of clothing that she has on (bib or no bib). I didn't realize that you could stain so badly. You've proved your point.

Dear Laundry Room,
I absolutely adore you. I adore everything about you. Your window, your pocket door, your counter, your sink, and your location in my home. I am so enjoying the ability to fold my laundry in my sewing room that is connected to you, but still separate from the rest of the house. I love being able to shut the door so Lydia can crawl around and won't be tempted to fall down the stairs. I love that if I don't quite finish folding a load I can shut the door and come back without having to worry that people will come over and see laundry all over my family room. I just love, love, love you!

Dear HBM Book Club leaders,
Thank you for choosing to read the same book that my book club chose to read this month! I picked up David's book, "Unbroken", and then was informed the following day that it was the book my book club was reading as well. Thank you for being so accommodating.

Dear Pinterest,
Thank you for providing me with so many fun meal ideas. Without you our dinners would be completely boring. However, could you please stop showing me quite so many cute party ideas? I have a budget for the bridal shower I'm throwing this weekend and you aren't making it easy. (Yes, a budget Pinterest, I don't know if you've heard of it.)

Dear NCAA,
I love my husband. He loves you. You love madness in March. I can't wait.

Dear Lydia,
I had so many more notes to write but you woke up from your nap early and taking care of you took precedence. However, I wouldn't trade our books read, songs danced to, or giggles shared for all the blog posts in the world. I love you.

Friday, March 15, 2013

Half {The Blog Post}

This post is about half…in particular my better half.



Me with my beautiful wife, Shantel Elise Peaden. 

Today is her half birthday. Happy half birthday!

For this celebration I have written a poem.

Half {The Poem}
I wish I could tell you half the things that make me love you so
It’s every morning waking up wishing I did not have to go
It’s when you walk or talk or pout because it's always the cutest thing
It’s that you put up with me and all I do, even when I sing
You let me sport, you make me laugh
All I can say is happy half



*update from Shantel*
David was SO sweet to me this whole day. He left little treats around the house for me (one of which I actually found the night before. He totally played it off like it was just one thing and it was just because he loved me). I kept thinking that was all of them, but they kept coming and coming. I didn't get a picture, but he also gave me a little gift from Lydia. (It was a beautiful teething necklace from Babysteals that I had mentioned loving like two months ago.) A sweet blog, yummy treats, pretty necklace, and several love notes. I feel so loved. So, so loved. I am so grateful for this wonderful man. He is amazing.

Tuesday, March 12, 2013

A bunch of thoughts, in list form.

I'm a list maker. I just am. I have a list for my meals for the week, a list for my "to-do's", a list for my groceries, a list for books that I want to read, a list for Netflix shows we are going to try out, several lists of pros and cons for assorted decisions, lots and lots of lists! I just like things to be laid out in an organized manner. It helps me think, helps me remember, and helps me make sure I don't miss anything. Plus, I just like the way they look.

Today I've decided to just list a bunch of things that I've been thinking about. (Inspired by this old post.)

1. We still don't have blinds in our house. Going on over three weeks now. Lucky for me David is a good sport and it doesn't bother him. We are pretty easy going and just want to make sure we find a good price and good quality. Hopefully we will get some ordered by the end of the week.

2.  I've been taking a hiatus from Red Ladder Design for a couple of months now. It's been nice to take a break, but if we want to keep Red Ladder going - we knew that we were going to have to put in some more effort in the marketing area.  And so, we have decided to attend the Thanksgiving Point Wedding Expo this Saturday. Yikes. I'm a little nervous because David has a really busy week at work this week and will already have worked 55 hours by Friday night, and then he will have to leave the expo early so that he can go back to work on Saturday. It's going to be a crazy week, poor boy. But if we want the business we need to attend this fair, especially to catch all of those summer brides. Wish us luck!

3. Random tidbit of information: We get about 90% of our business from Bridal Fairs. It's a pretty big investment up front; a lot of time and money go into it. But it totally pays in the end. We usually have a big boom the two months following a fair and then business keeps trickling in for the next six months or so. We actually haven't done a bridal fair in a full year - and I've stayed pretty busy with follow up business from our last fair at the University of Utah. But we definitely need to get in on the new bridal front if we want that business to keep coming. (This will be our sixth or seventh bridal fair. Awesome.)

4. Because I'm thinking about it, one of my lists right now is a pro con list for printing a new banner for our booth. I REALLY want to print it on a nice canvas (it's huge, like 2x5 feet), but I think I want to use our new logo. However, the rest of our stuff hasn't been re-branded yet - so I don't know if it would be a huge deal if the banner was slightly different from the printed materials.

5. My sweet friend Cassie is getting married (yay!) and I am throwing her a bridal shower. Her cute invitations are on their way, but in the meantime I hand lettered envelopes using this font. I just eyeballed it - but I am so happy with the way they turned out. I'm really excited for her shower, but I'm hoping that things turn out the way that I want them to. I tried to order tissue paper online to make some pretty decorations, but shipping was like $10 on top of a $15 order and I just couldn't justify the price enough to make it happen. Now I'm having to rethink things.

6. Right now I'm wearing my retainer. One time my mom told me that I needed to wear my retainer every night or my teeth would shift. I only half listened and after a couple of years of wearing it every night, I started to miss a few nights here and there. Then I got married and pretty much stopped wearing it altogether (I'm not sure why). Recently, I felt like my teeth were aching a little bit and that one of my front teeth had shifted so I went and found my retainer again. Imagine my horror when it wouldn't fit! My mom was right, grr. I hate it when that happens. (Sorry mom!) I went and had a new retainer made, and have been trying to wear it more frequently. I was a little mad when I found out that my new retainer would just hold me teeth where they are right now, and wouldn't help pull them back to where they are supposed to be, so I didn't wear it as much at first. But now I realize that I really really really don't want my teeth to shift anymore than they already have. So that's why I'm wearing a retainer.

7.  I love our new rug. We got it for a great deal and it is beautiful. But it's kind of scratchy. I'm a little bummed about it. If I want to put Lydia down on the floor I feel like I have to put a blanket down so that she doesn't hurt her little hands. Bummer about that. I just wish it wasn't so scratchy, then I would really really love it.

8. Last week we spent the week at David's parents house. They were out of town on vacation, we we came up to keep an eye on David's grandma. Grandma McAllister lives in a house right behind them. She is still able to take care of herself - but as she is getting older she is suffering from Alzheimers. She asks the same question repeatedly like, "How old is she again?" in reference to Lydia. But she is so sweet. As we visited several times she kept saying how darling Lydia was, and how cute babies are, and how lucky I am. She had three children, but she shared that her and her husband would have liked to have had more- but weren't able to. They were both healthy and the doctor couldn't tell them why, but it was something that she was still sad about. It touched my heart. I'm so grateful for the time that we had to spend with her. She probably won't be around for much longer and I'm so glad that Lydia was able to play with her and create that bond with her.

9. In the past four days I've eaten an entire box of Girl Scout cookies. The best kind of course: Samaos. Does that make me a bad person? (David doesn't like coconut, but I couldn't resist buying a box.) Good thing they only come around once a year.

10. I want to go swimming SO bad. I'm dying over it. First I need to find Lydia an adorable swimsuit, then I am going to go and camp out next to our community swimming pool until it opens. In April.

11. I've been looking for a cute swimsuit for Lydia. My friend, Lauren, posted about a darling swimsuit at gap.com that I fell in love with. It was usually $20 (which is far too expensive for my frugal nature), but it was on sale for $15 with an additional 25% off, bringing it down to $11. I was SO excited. I immediately clicked to add it to my cart and realized that they were going to charge $7 in shipping! Bringing the total back to $20(ish). I was so sad. This was on the heels of the tissue paper shipping fiasco and now I'm even more bummed.

12. Ashley, my dear friend, has had me laughing so hard over the past week or so. Her husband has to be gone for his calling on Tuesday nights and so for the past two Tuesdays, after her kids are gone to bed, she has decided to go back to the beginning of my blog and entertain herself with my silly 21 year old self. I was so surprised when I noticed that I had 25 comments needing moderation. 25! I laughed as I read her reactions and comments about the posts from when we were very first married. David and I have had a great time reading her comments and then going back and reading the old posts. We've been laughing at ourselves for how silly we were, and laughing in relief that we aren't still in school and working and student teaching and studying. (It's a miracle that we made it through that.) Ashleys comments are now up to 85. Haha, I love that girl and have LOVED the little flashes to our past. She has the funniest comments about the things we wrote. I love it. She is wonderful.

13. I love that Lydia and Elsie are such good friends. The other day I was reading Ashley's blog and a picture of Elsie came up. Lydia was sitting on my lap playing and when she saw the picture of Elsie she started smiling so big and tried to crawl up to the screen. You could tell that she saw her friend and wanted to play. It was so darling. *disclaimer, I really try not to be on the computer with Lydia is awake because I am trying to focus on being present when I am playing with her - but this story was too cute not to share.*

14. Sometimes I think that I am ready to have another baby. I want a big family. I want my kids to be close. I want to start working the birthdays forward towards the fall and not so close to the end of the "school year". But then I remember how sick I was during the first trimester. I don't know if Lydia is old enough to be able to handle such a sick mama. I don't know if I'm ready to take that next step. Lydia still seems so little. Still such a baby girl. But when I look at things on paper I feel a sense of urgency. This isn't an announcement of any kind. But it's been on my mind a lot lately.

15. I typically do NOT watch reality TV shows. However, a couple of weeks ago David was working late and as an act of defiance I watched the last part of an episode of The Bachelor. When he got home, I made him watch the end with me. Last night we were busy - but I may or may not be watching the season finale on Abc.com right now. I like Lindsay so much better. Choose her Sean! Choose her! (I already know that he chose Catherine. I'm just not happy about it and I'm hoping that if I watch - something will change - or that I will like Catherine better. So far it's not working.) I'm pathetic!

16. Today I went to the park with Ashley- it was so warm and sunny. I loved it SO much. The sun was out and the sky was beautiful. Lydia practiced climbing up the stairs and went down the slide for the first time. It was so nice and fun. Yay for summer coming!

Well, thats about it. My biggest list of the day. (So far.)

Wednesday, March 6, 2013

Lydia: 9-10 Months

I don't know how it is possible, but I love this little girl more and more every day. Sometimes it seems like I can't believe that she is already ten months old. But other times, I can't even remember life without her. I adore her. We both do.


Lydia is still in 6-9 month clothes, but I'm thinking that I should probably pull out the 12 month clothes and sift through them sometime soon. She wears size three diapers and can't wear any of her baby socks anymore because they are too small. (I probably tried to force these for far too long - I just love the little socks and didn't want to part with them.) I don't have a scale for her - I'm wishing that we had one just so I could weigh her on it - but she is very petite. Definitely small for her age. And so, so darling.

This last month has been spent crawling and climbing around our new house. It's been so fun to watch her explore her new home. I was worried about the transition, but it never even fazed her. The first week of her nine month we spent bouncing back and forth from grandparents house to grandparents house, and then we moved in on the 16th of February. She did really well with all of the transitions that we made and you can tell she loves her new house.

Some other things that we've been up to this month:

-She can climb stairs! Our stairs go up half-way then stop on a landing, then turn and go up the rest of the way. She LOVES to crawl up, and as soon as she gets to the landing she scoots her little self as fast as she can to climb the rest of the way. We finally installed a babygate at the bottom on the stairs because if she can see them, she wants to crawl up them.

--Food, food, food. If you remember from last month I was stressed about stage1/stage2/stage3 foods and the time that you were supposed to wait between introducing each new food. I took Lydia to her pediatrician for her 9 months appointment right after I wrote that post and his response to my question/plea was "Oh, no. You are way past that. At this point she can eat pretty much anything as long as it isn't a choking hazard (except peanut butter, milk, and honey). We want you to start feeding her what you are eating." What a relief! I took that message to heart and started letting her eat pretty much anything that I was eating. (In small pieces of course.)

--She loves oranges and clementines but she can't handle the little membranes around each slice. If I let her have little pieces of orange she ends up with a big wad of membrane in her mouth and I have to fish it out before she tries to swallow it and she chokes. So, I painstakingly peel off the membrane around each little slice and feed her just the inside of the slice. I just want to document this so that someday she will know how much I loved her. It's a lot.


--As far as other foods go, she is still an awesome eater. She likes to eat cheerios, cheese, pasta, potatoes, rice with sauce, cottage cheese, crackers, bread, and pretty much anything else that I am eating. She likes to suck on pickles, and loves to eat dill relish. (When I spoon some onto my hotdog, I will give her a little spoonful and she really loves it.) Thats my girl! She also ate a whole slice of tomato when we went out to lunch the other day. I'm grateful that she likes to many different types of food.


(These picture are of her loving her Grandpa Peaden's mashed potatoes.)

--Glory Hallelujah! She is sleeping through the night. I never thought this day would come, but she goes down at 8 and then sleeps until 6:30. The other night as I was crawling into bed I thought, "This is the most amazing feeling in the whole world - to know that I am going to be able to sleep all night and not have to wake up until 6:30." I've really needed the sleep, and I honestly don't know if I could have handled the lack of sleep for much longer. I think that being in this house has helped her sleep better. (And we had several nights of letting her cry at that 4 o'clock wakeup time before she realized that she could just sleep through the night.)


--I love our bedtime routine. We eat and let her get really messy. Then we carry her up the stairs to the bathroom. I usually set her by the tub so she is standing and holding on to the edge.  When I turn on the water she squeals and squeals and tries to stretch her hand to touch the water. It makes my heart so happy, I absolutely love it. I will be sad when she doesn't do that anymore. We sit her in the tub and let her play for 15-20 minutes. She loves the water, and I fully intend on having her follow in her water-loving-mama's footsteps. After she is all squeaky clean, we pull her out and wrap her up in her little hooded towel. We take a few seconds to sing and dance while looking in the mirror. She looks at her crazy mom and dad and laughs and "bababa's" right along with our made-up songs. As soon as we set her on the ground, she starts crying (never fails) but once we wrestle her into her pajamas she calms down and plays with her daddy for a few minutes before it's time for bed. We turn off the lights and I wrap her super-soft purple blanket around her and nurse her until she has calmed down. I usually lay her in her crib before she is completely asleep, but sometimes I can't help but rock her (actually, usually I am standing as I nurse her because she wont fall asleep if I'm in a chair) until she is sleeping. I know that this precious time where I have to hold her as she is falling asleep will be gone in a flash so I try to soak up every peaceful moment.

--David loves her just as much (if not more) than I do. I just love to watch them together. Her little personality is coming out more and more - and you can see how much love she has for her daddy.


--She's transitioned from picking things up and putting them directly into her mouth to picking them up and really inspecting it (and then putting it into her mouth). It's just so interesting to see her learning so much about her environment  You can tell that she is getting smarter and more exploratory and that she is figuring out how things work.

--She has learned that certain things belong certain places. In the bath, she tries to put her little toys into their little boats. If she pulls a shape off of her quiet book, she tries to put it back. (Not in the right spot of course, but she gets the idea.) You can tell that she gets that things have places that they go. Involved in this is that she has learned that she can put things places. When I fold laundry she will pick up a pair of socks and crawl over and set them on the step stool in the laundry room - or she will pick up an item of clothing and put it back in the basket. It's so fun! Even more fun is that she has started to take things and hide them places. She was playing with my contact case when she crawled over and put it in David's shoe. Later that night I couldn't find my contact case! Then I remembered that she had been playing with it and I found it right where she had left it. This is funny and worrisome all at the same time. The lens cap to our camera has gone missing and I can only hope that we find it. I'm convinced that she took it and put it somewhere.

--I've mentioned that Lydia is getting so fun because she is getting more and more aware of things around her. She is also getting so good at responding to games. My favorite game is called "The getting you game." I get down on my hands and knees and start growling at her. Immediately she looks at me and starts crawling away.  (Sometimes she will be standing next to a table and she will rock back and forth like she is so nervous and will drop to her knees and start crawling away.) I'll say "I'm gonna get you!" and crawl after her. She is so funny because she will crawl as fast as she can, but then after a few seconds she will slow down and "let" me catch her. I love it. So then I grab her around her tummy and pull her back into my lap and twist my upper body while saying "Whaa-ha-ha, I got you!" She squeals and then wants to play again. I seriously love it. She will play the same game with David and it's so fun, but sometimes with him - she will turn around and start trying to get him. She will crawl right into him, right between his arms and hitting her head on his knees. It's so cute.



--Another game that is similar to "The getting you game", is the game that we like to play when we are standing up. If I am holding her, I say "Lets get Daddy!" and we slowly creep up on him while saying "Rar, rar, rar." He pretends to be really scared until we get to him when he says "Ahh, you got me" while I bounce her up and down against him. Then we switch and I carry Lydia away saying "Oh no, he's going to get us!" And he will creep up on us and tickle her when he gets to us. She will laugh and laugh, and there is nothing better in the world than hearing her sweet laugh. (We play the game the other way with David carrying her and chasing me. She loves to play the game with grandparents and aunts and uncles and pretty much anyone.)

--Lydia has started to put things on her head. Most of the time they don't stay there, but i'm constantly cleaning food out of her (sparse but definitely there) hair. I don't know if it's because she likes the idea of putting her toys/food on her head or if she just lifts her arms up and that is what happens. The other day I looked over to see that somehow she had gotten a cube of cheese stuck up on her head. Funny girl. I really have no idea how it happened, but it definitely made me laugh.


--Lydia likes to put her hand in front of her mouth so that the back of her hand is right over her lips. She  then curls and uncurls her fingers to make a little indian sound. We aren't sure if she likes the way it feels on her hand or if she likes the noise that it makes but she does it all. the. time. It's so funny. Unfortunately, this girl is a little camera shy and won't let me capture it on video or even in a picture.

--She is starting to balance better and better. She can stand on her own for several seconds. (If you set her on her feet, or if she pulls herself up on something then lets go.) Her record I think is 30 seconds. I could hardly believe it!


--Did I mention that she is sleeping through the night? Because, hello, 8-6:30 is pretty much amazing!

--The thing that stands out the very most from the last month is how much she loves to carry things in her mouth. She doesn't just stick things in her mouth, she sticks them in to carry them around. Pens, spoons, toys, and pretty much anything else that can fit in her mouth. We just think that she is so smart because she wants to bring something with her as she crawls and it is hard to hold it in her hand so she just sticks it in her mouth in order to bring it along. Pretty much all of the pictures that I took this month have at least one in the series with her carrying something in her mouth.









--Along with the above item about her carrying things in her mouth is another of her favorite games. She started this when she was 9 months old (maybe even 8 months), but I forgot to write about it last month. (How could I forget???) One of our favorite games is when she has a pen/spoon in her mouth she will stick it out straight and let me grab it with my mouth. She then lets go, laughs, and then uses her mouth to grab the other end of it. It is SO funny. This is another thing that I will really miss when she stops doing it.




--At this point still no teeth. Also, no clapping and no word-sounds other than babababa and wawawa.

--Lydia still loves her mom. A lot. I love that she knows how much I love her and that she reciprocates so well. She loves to snuggle me and is much more confident in her exploring if I am in the same room. However, this creates a problem when I ever have to leave. David surprised me with a fun date night and had my little sister Melissa come up to watch Lydia and she cried the whole time. Melissa said that she kept crawling to the door that I had walked out of and would sit by it and cry. Poor girl! (Really, poor Lydia AND poor Melissa.) But I really do love that she loves me so much.



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We love you beautiful girl! Happy 10 months.