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Friday, September 6, 2013

Lydia Elise: 15 - 16 Months

This lovely girl is 16 months old today. 

She is lovely, and happy, and absolutely not a baby anymore. Although, I still call her my Lydia-baby much of time (so much so that she's started walking around the house saying "baby, baby, baby") she's absolutely her own little toddler-person. However, she is still in size 3 diapers and size 4 shoes. I wish that we had a scale just so I knew how much she weighs. Over 20 lbs, certainly. She still wears 12 months cloths, although her 18 month clothes fit her just fine now. 


Some other details from the month: 

--She sleeps consistently from eight oclock at night to seven fifteen in the morning. It's wonderful. However, she has occasionally started crying in the middle of the night and when I go in I've found her with her sad little foot stuck between the slats of her crib. I don't know if she's always stuck her feet out and only recently they have gotten too big to slip back through or if that's a new thing. I'm hoping that she grows out of it soon because it's so sad. 

--We are still steadily napping two naps. The first nap is from 9ish to 11ish. The second nap is from 3ish to 5ish. My mom keeps telling me that she is ready to transition to one nap, which is probably true, but I'm not ready to transition to one nap yet. So we are still happy with our arrangement. 

--We had a lot of fun this last month. We played with friends, went to a couple of splash pads, had a couple of pool dates, had Aunt Melissa Shaye come stay with us, and other fun things. 






--We are growing up quickly at this house. She copies everything that we do. Including relaxing on the chaise. Everything she does is so darling. 
  

--Lydia is still a great eater. She's stopped eating everything that I put in front of her. She used to be happy with whatever I wanted to feed her, but now she has a definite opinion about what she wants to eat. But I think that has more to do with her desire to assert her independence than it does with actually enjoying the types of food I feed her. She loves grapes, but occasionally she will decide that isn't what she wants at that particular moment and so off the tray they go. (That's another thing that I thought we were past, but has reappeared. If she doesn't want to eat something she tosses it over the edge of her tray.) However, all that aside - she still enjoys a great variety of food. Some of our favorites this month: Melon, grapes, pasta, zucchini, peas, bagels, rice with soy sauce, relish (we serve this when we have hotdogs and she's happy to just eat the relish plain), string cheese, and graham crackers. She hasn't been as impressed with tomatoes as she used to be and she all but refuses to eat animal crackers. I'm grateful that she's such a good eater, because most of the time I just feed her whatever we are eating for dinner. Sometimes she likes things that I wouldn't have even thought to feed her - like this picture. Raw onion. She was sitting on the counter while I was making dinner (Fajitas), and she reached over and started snacking on the onion that I was cutting. She really liked it and kept coming back for more. That's just one example of how good of an eater she is. 

I know I said that she hasn't been eating tomatoes as much as she used to. It may very well be because we canned tomatoes and she ate so many of them. (Don't judge this picture. We had a line of people cutting tomatoes at the counter and no place for our giant pot, so I had it next to the counter where I could dump the diced tomatoes. We didn't think about how it was the perfect location for Lydia to snitch out of. After this picture, we made room for it up on the counter. We really are sanitary people.) 


--She's learning how to problem solve. For a long time if the ball rolled under a table she would cry because she couldn't get it. Then she learned that she could crawl under to get it - but she couldn't ever get back out. Now she's learning how to manipulate her body to get her and the ball out.  



--Two of the things she absolutely adores in this world are her books and her dad. I love to watch them together. It makes me so happy and grateful to be blessed with these two. If Lydia sees a book she will "ooh-ooh", pick it up, and then bring it to you to have you read it to her. Her favorite thing is when her daddy is home and can read her the books. 



--Oh, and dancing. She loves to dance. Which mostly consists of her spinning in circles. If she hears music she automatically starts dancing, but she is sometimes prompted by nothing at all. I often wonder if she just gets a buildup of happiness in her little body and just has to let it out. I certainly know that each time she dances, it brings a smile to my heart. 

 -This month we celebrated two of Lydia's Great-Grandma's Birthdays. Coincidentally, both wonderful women had their birthday's on the same day: August 29th. My Grandma Knowles turned 80 and David's Grandma McAllister turned 88. It was so fun for Lydia to be able to spend some time with her great-grandmas and for them to be able to spend some time with her, too.  


-We did a lot of yard work this month and Lydia was a trooper. She played outside while we dug, raked, planted, and a myriad of other tasks. Most of the time we tried to work while she was napping, but when she was awake she was happy to help us. Here she is helping us to dig a hole for our tree in the backyard. (Good thing we remembered to plant the tree and not her!) 
--I mentioned that Lydia loves books, food, and cars/trains/airplanes. However, the thing that she loves the very most in the whole world is shoes. She LOVES shoes. Her own shoes, her mama's shoes, her daddy's shoes, random shoes she finds on the floor, shoes at the store. She loves them. I'm really impressed at her skills in walking around in them. She can put pretty much any shoe on by herself and can walk, turn, and spin in them. Even David's large tennis shoes. She's really very coordinated. 


To illustrate her love of shoes... I thought I'd include some picture of her shenanigans while I was shopping clearance at the Outlets across the freeway. I swear she found every single pair of shoes in each store we went to. She was in heaven! 




-She is SO full of energy. Observe. 



-She has got the saddest sad face in the world. If you try to make her do something that she doesn't want to do - she immediately scrunches up her face and whines. Poor girl. Being a baby is so hard. 


--We are already teaching her about the basics of Utah State fan-ship. We sing the fight song in the car and dressed her up for the kickoff football game last week. I seriously want some more Aggie gear for our little girl. She is the cutest little Aggie fan, ever. (Also, those tennis shoes? We got them as some handme downs and they are easily Lydia's favorite shoes. She loves them. She will chose them over any of her others. I think it's so funny.) 


--Speaking of her really cute Aggie outfit, it's seriously a miracle that we got a picture of her with her USU bow on her head. This is what most of our pictures looked like.  
You may have noticed that the majority of pictures this month are bow-less. I don't know why, but she's recently decided that she hates wearing her bows. I don't know why, because they are so cute. But unless we are going out, I usually don't even try to fight the battle because this is always what happens:

--This month we've started tending our favorite Cooper kiddos on Friday mornings. Lydia has loved playing with Carson and Elsie on such a regular basis. Lydia and Elsie have started  interacting more and have started copying each other's actions. If one of them does something, the other will start doing it as well. Then they look at each other and laugh and keep doing it. It's darling. 



--Lydia still loves her cupboard in our kitchen. She plays in it frequently and has just started sitting down and letting the door shut on her. She will sit there for minutes at a time just jabbering to herself while her legs are sticking out. I love it. 



-First Haircut! I blogged about it here: Lydia's First Haircut. In summary, she did a great job and I love her new little trim. 

--I think I may have mentioned that Lydia only had two teeth until she was almost 15 months and then last month during our Houston, TX trip - she had three teeth come in. She still has only those five teeth and it's so funny. I was under the impression that the top two teeth usually come in together, but Lydia's top left tooth came in along to the one just outside of that. That front tooth is huge. Seriously, at first I was concerned that it was actually two teeth fused together. Then I was worried that the top right tooth hadn't developed and that's why it hadn't come through. But you can now see it getting ready to break the skin and so I'm not worried anymore. I'm just content to smile along with Lydia's toothy grin. 


 --Lydia has SO much energy. She still loves climbing all over anything that she can. She's found that if she pushes the brown ottoman up to the coffee table she can climb up and dance on the top. I have lots of memories of dancing on my parents coffee table and so I love to watch her do this. She's big enough that I don't worry as much about her falling off, although I am very careful while she's up there. But I totally get that standing on the table is way cooler than standing on the floor. She could climb up and down all afternoon if i'd let her. One of my other favorite things is that often as she is climbing up or down, she will pause and sit on the ottoman with her little legs tucked under the table.



-- Even though she's got lots of energy, she actually likes to cuddle more than she ever did when she was little. I'm such a lucky mama. 

--I couldn't get many good pictures of the signs, but Lydia is awesome at signing lots of things now. Some of her favorites are dog, airplane, train (she does this at least 50 times a day), food, milk, and many others. I love that she can communicate with me. She still isn't saying any words continuously. Occasionally she will say Mom, train, amen, Dad, and Baby. Sometimes I wonder if I'm just imagining that she says those words because she doesn't say them all the time - but she's definitely communicating. It's so fun.  (This is her signing car, which looks remarkably like she's doing the Scotsman. Like I said, training her young.) 

-I wanted a good picture of her looking at the camera and smiling while still wearing a bow on her head for the main picture on this post. (I know. It's a lot to ask for.) We dressed her up pretty and over the space of an hour or so I took almost 300 pictures. Approximately two resembled the picture that I wanted. Most of them looked like this: 

But I did get some cute ones that I felt that I needed to include here at the end. They are just too cute.








We love you, our happy-baby Lydia. You bring us so much joy! Happy 16 months. 

Thursday, September 5, 2013

Today's Random Thoughts

Today, I'm laughing at this: Stick Man Adventures


See? That's David and I climbing a ladder to save someone. I'm awesome at drawing stick figures with a mouse.

You will be even more impressed when you realize that I drew that with a tiny mini-mouse that we got for free at an accounting recruiting event. Not the big nice touchpad mouse that belongs with our computer. When the nice mouse runs out of batteries, I pull out the mini one and use it until I finally decide (or David finally decides) to dig around for batteries.

Life is always so full of different emotions. It's amazing how quickly I can go from feeling worried and scared to incredibly happy and grateful. I just think that there are so many different aspects of life, and the more I try to take things just a tiny piece at a time, the happier I am. I get overwhelmed fairly easily especially when I start thinking about all the things I need to do, and how fast time is going by, and what is life going to be like when Lydia is a teenager and how will we possibly be able to teach her how to be happy and confident and spiritual when there are so many negative things beating at the door. We have a lot of friends and family members who are struggling with many different things, and we ourselves struggle with our own challenges. But there is so much good in the world. So today, instead of being worried, stressed, and upset - I'm choosing to be happy.

Here are some things that make me happy:

-Being able to stay home and be with Lydia as she signs "Train" and "Airplane" and "Car" and "Food" over and over again. (She likes her vehicles almost as much as she likes to eat.)

-Staying up late with David talking about all of the things we want for our future family. Even though we said that we were going to go to bed early.

-Eating yummy food. (We've made a lot of good recipes lately.) Some of my favorites have been: Sweet Pork Salads, Two Timin' Pasta, Southwest Chicken Soup and Creamy Chicken Fajitas. Mmmmm.

-Wearing white cargo capris with a happy colored shirt. I feel like I'm cheating the system (what? a mom wearing white pants?) and even though I have to wash them every. single. time. I wear them, it's worth it.

-Fun and random things like a Family Rootbeer taste-test. Who knew that Teddy's would be my very favorite? It tied with A&W. As for Bundaberg- don't even try it. It was the worst. I believe that out of the eleven of us it was the lowest ranked rootbeer.

-Well designed product packaging. Seriously. I love a pretty package label.

-The new "individualized lists" on Netflix! We now have a list for David, one for me, one for Lydia, and one for when David and I watch together. It's awesome. Doctor Who for me. Prison Break for David. And all of the baby shows on their own list. Lydia doesn't watch TV often, but occasionally I will put on Barney for her - and it's nice to be able to have that on it's own queue.

-My Birthday! Did you know that my birthday is only ten days away? Yep! I love birthdays. And this one is going to be super great, I just know it.

-Our Red Ladder Design - About Us page. It seriously makes me so happy. How lucky am I to have such a wonderful man by my side through this crazy business venture? So lucky.

-Crazy hair days. This is Lydia and I right now. We may not leave the house like this, but for right now we are happy to be here together, especially with our crazy hair.

Monday, September 2, 2013

Lydia's First Haircut

Well, actually, it's more like "Lydia's First Hair-trim". You may think that we're crazy to be cutting Lydia's hair when she has so little of it - but the back had grown out much longer than the front/top and so I decided to just trim the mullet section off. It should be noted that my mother-in-law and sister-in-laws (Wendy and Amy), were very much opposed to this operation. But as much as I loved the little baby curls in the back, it made me sad when the back got matted and tangled and bothered Lydia. Plus, I'm fairly opposed to baby mullets. I'd been talking about cutting it for several weeks, but today when David asked if I would cut his hair I knew that it was time. 

Here are our before pictures:  

You can see how it's just so much longer in the back. 

During: 
Lyd was a champ. She was a little hesitant about the clippers (you can see her keeping her eyes on the clippers at all time) and she actually did pretty good with them. But the noise was freaking her out a little so we ended up stopping with the clippers and I used scissors to finish trimming her hair.  
  


  



We sat her on the counter so that David could sit in front of her and play with her while I cut her hair. It worked really well. As far as the after pictures go, I chased her around with a camera for like 20 minutes and these are the best pictures that I came away with. You can see how nice and even everything looks. It doesn't bother her as much anymore and I think it just looks so darling!



I waited for it to grow out long enough for me to save a lock of hair. I'm going to tape it into our book after we print it out in the location below. Aren't I creative? Take that scrapbooking! 


Update: I wasn't super happy with the only after pictures that I was able to get - and after chasing Lydia around for an hour trying to get ONE picture of her smiling at me for her 15-16 month post I found that I got a whole bunch of the back of her head. Here are some cute ones where you can see how big of a difference the little trim made. I just love this sweet girl!