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Tuesday, October 17, 2017

Gardner Village 2017

We made our annual visit to Gardner Village with Melissa and Zachary Peaden. It was a beautiful day. I mean, the weather couldn't have been more amazing. We enjoyed strolling around and finding all the witches, then eating cookies at the Naborhood Bakery. This is truly one of my favorite fall traditions. 



I love how well Lydia and Zachary get along, and Austin is old enough now to just join in their fun wherever they go. #cousinsmakethebestfriends 


Caleb was a champ and just hung out the whole time - toward the end he fell asleep, the sweet boy. Also, I didn't get a picture of it, but Lydia picked a stuffed unicorn plush as a special prize because she just learned how to buckle herself into her carseat. (I've been telling her for months that if she learned to buckle herself in I would buy her a prize and a treat. She finally figured it out, and rather than waiting to go to the store - she picked something here.) 

I'm glad for this activity that connects me to Melissa, and helps keep our sister-in-law bond strong. I'm always impressed with her strength and positive attitude, even though things in her life are beyond difficult. It makes me want to be kinder, more positive, and a better person. I'm grateful for her influence and her friendship.

Wednesday, October 11, 2017

David's 33rd Birthday

They say that good things come in threes, and this year that certainly proved to be the case! Austin turned 3, Shantel turned 30, and this handsome fellow here, turned 33!
 This may be my favorite picture of David right now. It so perfectly captures him as the loving husband and father that he is. I'm grateful for how much energy and effort he puts into being the kind, loving, gentle, fun, helpful, present patriarch of our family. The kids adore him, and I do, too. 

David is my calm, my steady rock. He is the bright spot in my day, and you'd think my whole world revolves around him, because basically... it does. I love to work along side him while completing a project, and I love to giggle with him in the middle of the night when we are both up with one child or another and one of our kids has said/done something ridiculous and we're both so tired that we can't help but laugh. (Okay, there are times that I love laughing with him more than when we are both in a sleep deprived state - but I love that I can laugh with him then.) It's clear that I think David is the bees-knees. I could write a thousand words about how great I think he is. But I'm telling you, I'm not the only one who knows that it's true. We started David's birthday month off with a fancy awards banquet with the Utah Association of CPAs where David was awarded as the "Rising Star" of the young CPA's in Utah. He's incredible. He works so hard in his career and others see his goodness and effort (and incredible intelligence, and engaging personality) and recognize how great he is.

To prepare for his actual birthday with our little family, I enlisted my sisters to come help me clean our our basement and organize, clean, and arrange a space for David's ping-pong table (that I gave to him for his birthday last year that we've only played a handful of times because there wasn't really a space for it downstairs.) It was a huge surprise for him, and I'm so grateful to my sisters, because I wouldn't have been able to pull it off without them. 
(candy kisses placed by Lydia and Austin leading him to the "birthday surprise")



Our birthday budget is pretty small, but the love in our hearts huge enough to make up for it. Happy Birthday David, my darling. We are so glad to have a special day to celebrate you and tell you how much you mean to us. We hope you know how loved you are. 

Tuesday, October 10, 2017

Caleb Samuel: 6-7 Months

We had these family pictures taken when Caleb was just over 6 months old, but I posted most of them in his six month blog post. However, I just can't get over how cute this baby is so I needed to post a few more for this month's blog post, too. I have to say, we are getting into my very favorite baby-age and every single day is a joy with this little guy. 

Stats: I have no idea how much he weighs. I'm going to have to weigh him this next month because he is getting heavy! I still don't feel like he's chunky, although he's definitely got some sweet baby-fat on him. He's in nine month clothes, and even some 12 month onsies. Size two diapers, but probably should be in size three - I just am squeezing him into the ones we have. Still no teeth, very little hair. 

Some things to remember: 

-Caleb is the perfect baby for our family. It's hard to imagine someone coming and fitting into our family as perfectly as he does. We all love him so much, and he brings so much happiness to us. 

-He's getting so alert and involved. It's so amazing to watch him watch people or things. He tenses his whole body when he's excited about what he sees and rocks back and forth like he wants to join in the party. I can tell when he sees David walk into a room just by how his body tenses up because he's so excited to see his dad. 

-Caleb visiting with Great-Grandma Peaden (Grandma Joyce). She was all smiles to be able to hold him and he was really good for her. I'm so grateful that my kids live close to and know their grandparents (and have been blessed with so many great-grandparents). 

-Caleb's #1 Fan? Austin Scott. These boys are well on their way to people thinking that they are twins. It's hard to know whether Caleb looks more like Austin or Lydia because to me he has his own distinct look, but when I look back at baby pictures I think they all look very similar. More than similar facial features - the gap in the size of these two is quickly shrinking. Austin was wearing 12 month things just last year, and Caleb is almost in that box of baby clothes. Looking at this picture makes me laugh because Caleb is almost as big as Austin is! These brothers are so lucky to have each other and I hope that they always love each other like they do now. 
-Lydia loves her littlest brother, too. She's a great older sister and whenever Caleb starts crying, she does whatever she can to help. Including "reading" him her new favorite, recently memorized, book. Whenever she starts reading to him, he quiets right down and keeps him occupied until I can come help him. Caleb is fairly reserved with his smiles and laughs, but he loves Lydia and she can squeeze out a smile almost every time.  
 

 -He loves to be right in the middle of where his siblings are playing. 

-He's sitting up so well! This is the best baby-age, when they can start sitting up steadily. He is so much more independent and loves to watch what is going on around him. I can set him on the counter while I'm getting ready, or making dinner. Or he can sit on the floor and bat at toys or watch the kids play. He's so happy about it, and so am I! 

-Out to eat for Austin's birthday. Caleb is a champ and is happy just to be along with us. He's super laid back and as long as I kept feeding him little bits of beet and peach he was happy to sit in his carseat the whole time. 

-There is something sweet about a baby falling asleep in their carseat. And, look at that sweet bow tie. Also, this is the same carseat that we had with Lydia. When we were carseat shopping we decided we should probably get a gender neutral carseat. Here we are on boy #2 and I'm thinking it was a really good choice! 

-This is our life. Caleb and I cuddling while the kids climb all over us. And Caleb trying to eat my face. 


-Caleb started eating real food this month. Like, real-real food. About 5.5 months we started feeding him some pureed fruits and veggies because he just seemed ready. At 7 months he is eating pretty much everything. It's hard to keep up with him food wise because he always wants more. He handles finger foods like a champ, so mostly I stick to small peas and diced carrots with a good helping of cheerios. I'm trying to do other things like frozen pureed squash, beans, soft apples, etc... Carbs are just so easy to give but I can tell his little stomach isn't used to so much bread and so I'm trying to find good healthy baby food options that he is happy feeding himself.
(I asked David what he remembered most about Caleb this month and he said "That he eats A ALOT." Which is true. Especially a lot for a six month old.)

--Sitting up means the top seat in the shopping cart! 

-Oh my. Caleb has started sticking his whole pacifier in his mouth and chomping on it instead of sucking on the nipple part. It's hilarious. He still takes his pacifier well when he is almost asleep or very tired, but not during the day - even when he's upset. He'll just grab it, pull it out, then chew on it sideways like so: 

Other things:
-He's not being the best sleeper anymore. I really can't complain because those newborn months were pure heaven. But I was hoping that by this age he'd be sleeping through the night and we've regressed to waking up 3-4 times. But I'm a pansy and can't handle the sleep training thing yet. Soon though, because we've got to get more sleep between the two of us.

-His smiles are fairly elusive and his laughs are extremely rare. You have to work to get him to smile (unless you are Lydia or David) and if he graces you with a laugh you should feel extremely lucky. But when he does smile and laugh, his whole face lights up and it's worth every second spent waiting. 

-He knows his name and it's darling to watch him turn when you're talking to him. 

-He goes to bed a bit later than either of our other babies did. Usually about 8:30 or 9:00, but then he's down for the night (until we start our 4 wake-ups about 1ish). It's kind of nice to have some time with just he, David, and I after the other kids are in bed. 

-I think he says mama, especially when he's really upset and he sees me - he really does sound like he's saying mama mama. I know it's not a real word, not really, but he doesn't say it for anyone but me and I kind of love it. 


This boy is such a wonderful part of our lives and we looooove him. Happy seven months sweet boy.