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Friday, September 27, 2019

Austin's 5 Year Birthday Celebrations




Austin's birthday week started out with a spontaneous trip to CALIFORNIA! We packed a whole bunch of fun things in, but no official birthday celebrations until we got home, which meant that we celebrated his birthday week mostly through the week after his birthday (usually I would celebrate a birthday week in the week leading up to the birthday). Lydia encouraged us to blow up balloons with special notes, treats, or activities in the balloons for each day. It was a win.

Basically for the entire month leading up to Austin's birthday, he kept asking if we could make his birthday cake yet. On Sunday, the day before his birthday, when we told him it was time to make his cake - he was thrilled. It was probably the highlight of his birthday celebrations. 



Monday morning, of his actual birthday, we brought him breakfast in bed (#win), let him skip his Monday morning jobs (#win), and then took him to the Legacy center, as per his request, after all of our homeschool things were done. (#win) In a note of honesty, it was on the rough side as far as days in general go, and at one point we were all so high-strung that I stuck everyone in the car and ran a few errands just because I needed people to be strapped into their carseats so we could all breathe for a minute. While Lydia was at her spanish class, I let Austin and Caleb stay in their carseats and watch a Paw Patrol in the van while I did some catching up on things in the front seat. It wasn't exactly a #win, but the boys thought it was great - so it wasn't a total loss. I hope that even though our day wasn't a picture perfect, full to the brim of goodness and sprinkles, day - that this Austin boy knew how much he was loved and how grateful we are to have him in our family. 

A Magic Tree House Cake for our Jack-and-Annie loving boy. 


He requested a #5 candle for his cake, but I didn't have one - thankfully our friend Sister Lewis heard about our missing candle and sent one over to us. It was perfect. 

Austin loves games, and so we bought him several new card games and I thought he'd be really excited about it - but although I think he will really like them over time, the big winner was a little walkie-talkie set that Aunt Jenna sent to him. We were able to Marco Polo with the Haderlies and I am SO grateful to them. It was exactly the kind of gift that is perfect for a 5 year old. Also he asked my parents for candy and they gave him FIVE big bags of candy. (Plus an alphabet writing book/card set). Sue and Cal were out of town for his birthday but they bought him a building set that he loves, but I'm just so grateful that Jenna sent those walkie-talkies so he could have something super special to open. 



The last balloon that he popped for his Birthday Week was a special date with Daddy. They ended up going to a little arcade in town and it was the best. Austin had a great time and talks about going back there often. The perfect way to end his birthday week. 


Austin, we hope that you know that the reason we celebrate your birthday is because we want to celebrate YOU. You are kind, funny, good-natured, and the best brother. We love you and will always be here for you and we are just so so glad that you are in our family. 

Tuesday, September 24, 2019

insta-september

insta-september
I love these small moments that are only a small fraction of the wonderful moments we have but that are lucky enough to be captured. Each post is an expression of gratitude for the life and goodness that we have. 

{9.2.19}
We've started work to finish our basement and David's Dad has been down here 3 of the last 8 days teaching us and helping us do it. We've framed out the storage room, stair landing, utility room and half of the main room. Cal is so knowledgeable, kind, and funny. He's patient with our mistakes and willing to spend lots of time talking through things to make sure we understand. David's brother @brucepeaden has been coming down, too, and he's been so helpful! It's been exciting to start work on our basement but even more fun to spend such a extended amount of time with Cal (and Bruce). I'm so grateful for a father-in-law who is so generous with his time, resources, and love.

{9.2.19}
Sue has been tagging along while Cal has been helping us with our basement and it's been so wonderful. She sits upstairs and snuggles the baby which allows me to be able to go down and work, too. I'm grateful for her. She doesn't judge my "lived in" (read: messy) house, she shows me incredible love, and she's a wonderful Grandma. I'm grateful that she feels comfortable and welcome in our home.


{9.8.19}
Utah weather is actually my favorite. Today started out rainy and windy, then it was warm and sunny, then a micro burst brought hail and pounding rain, and we ended with a calm blue sky. You get all the best kind of weather packed into a single day. (I must be a kid at heart because I loved it as much as my kids.)
{9.9.19}
Sunshine + new books from our Library haul= the best Monday morning.

{9.9.19}
My brain is full of words, but I can't figure out a way to articulate everything bouncing around in my head. So here are some bullet points to hopefully ease the jumble in my mind:
-It's my birthday week! 🥳 I ate a donut that David bought for me and read books with my kids in the sunshine. My new favorite way to start off a birthday week. -Out of pure desperation we moved Caleb into Lydia and Austins room 3 days before Lucy was born. It helped for a while, but bedtime just isn't working great for anyone. It's a problem and I'm not sure how to fix it. -Lucy has a visit with an ophthalmologist tomorrow to hopefully figure out some visual issues she's having and I'm nervous but also feeling really peaceful about it. .
The end.
{9.13.19}
Thank you to everyone for the kind words and prayers after my last post mentioning Lucy's opthalmologist appointment. Lucy was diagnosed with some potentially severe visual conditions but the doctor wasn't sure where she will fall in the range. We go back in three months because at six months they will better be able to tell what the rest of her life will be like. So friends, we are praying for a miracle- that her eyesight will improve and her eyes will strengthen over the next three months so that when we go back in December she will be at a place that will minimize the impact that her conditions will have on her life. I believe in the power of a group of people praying for the same thing, and if you would join us in praying for her, we would appreciate each and every plea on her behalf. We have been filled with great peace and confidence. Moving forward we are determined to do so faithfully and with joy. We love our Lucy Holland and are grateful for such a wonderful support system of loving people in her life.


{9.18.19}
Sometimes I go back and read through my Instagram posts and just cry because of how grateful I am to have captured such small, wonderful moments. 😭 David and I have a blog where we keep most of our pictures and we write about them, but usually after the fact (as in, I'm trying to catch up on July right now- yikes 😬) But Instagram has been a way for me to capture tiny moments, things that don't really need a full blog post- but that I want to document anyway. I keep my circle pretty small here- an amazing little space full of people that I love- but I mostly post for myself. This week has been a rollercoaster of emotions. But through it all I have felt this overwhelming peace from heaven. In addition, I have been absolutely overwhelmed by the support and love shown by you, my friends and family. After learning of Lucy's vision conditions, we took a few days to process but we have settled back into normalcy and are determined more than ever to create a home of love and faith. It feels a little funny to start posting about normal things again, but those normal things have brought a lot of comfort and I'm just grateful for this life I'm living no matter what happens. (Still praying for our little Lucy-Lou that her eyes will get stronger, but feeling confident that no matter what everything will be okay.) Thank you for being there for me and showing us so much love and support. ♥️
{9.20.19}
That one week when you take your homeschool on the road, hop in a car and head to California! Science with Grandpa Walker and Uncle Matthew, Art with Aunt Brooklyn, PE at the beach. The best homeschool week ever. Thank you M&B for being so great and letting us come visit. We love you so much.

{9.20.19}
The real reason for our trip. ♥️😍♥️ Baby Juniper, we love you SOOO much! I'm so glad we got to hold you and go with you on a few of your first adventures. You are just a tiny baby, but you have a huge place in our hearts! You probably already know, but your parents are amazing and you are so lucky to have them.


{9.23.19}
You guys. This Austin-boy of ours turned five! He loves the Magic Treehouse books, playing card games, and snuggling with his baby sister. His actual birthday was a bit of a rough day: picture me basically giving up in the middle of the day and strapping the kids in the car to go ... somewhere... simply because we needed to get out of our house. Then leaving the boys strapped in while they watched a movie in our garage and I did some life-catch-up in the front seat. He requested to go to the swimming pool instead of having a friend party and that was a great end to our day. More than anything I hope that this boy knows how much we love him and how grateful we are that he is in our family.

Monday, September 23, 2019

Austin 5 Years Old!

Austin-Austin Bo-Baustin Banana-Fanna-Fo-Faustin, Me-My-Mo-Maustin -- Austin! 

That's one of your favorite chants that we do at our house and sharing it here is a good way to showcase your funny sense of humor, your kind nature, and how special you are to our family. All the sudden you went and got big on me and I'm not sure how to feel about it. I'm so proud of you and the person you are and I'm so grateful that I get to be your mama and go with you on this journey of life.

 

Stats: 
Weight: 34.4 lbs (8%)
Height: 40.5 in (9%)

Size 4T mostly. Some 4T is getting a bit small, but most 5T is still a little big. The cutest little gap between his bottom two teeth. Hazel eyes that change colors with what he's wearing. The best laugh in the world. Size who knows what in shoes. (9 maybe??)

Some things (and pictures) to remember about Austin over the past 6 months: 

-He is just super, super kind. Good at sharing, especially with... well really with all of his siblings.

-He has really had a thing for paper airplanes. David taught him how to make them and now he can mostly make them by himself (sometimes he brings them to me to help fold them, but he shows me how to fold them). He loves flying them and at any given time there might be 10-12 laying around the house. 

-When he's really excited he yells out: Yeah-hoo!


-He's a good problem solver. He solves problems and makes connections about different things. He also is good at finding a solution when he really wants something and I'm saying no. I think its a valuable skill.
-He's also really good at explaining things. Part of that is because of his speech and how he often needs to be descriptive to help me know what he is saying, but he's become good at explaining all sorts of things. 
-He's got a great sense of humor.

-He is the first one to wake up every morning. We finally got a "OK to wake clock" that turns green at 7 am and that has helped us all, but as soon asits green he comes popping into our room ready to go! Sometimes I can convince him to lay with me for a minute. Sometimes I can convince him to play with the magnatiles in the homeschool room for a little bit.



-We have some wonderful Grandmas in our life and the way that Austin distinguishes them from each other is: Grandma with Fruitsnacks vs Grandma with gum.

-Talking Time was good for Austin through the end of the school year last year, but this summer I really started noticing a difference in his speech. Now we are doing one-on-one meetings with the speech therapist at Fox Hollow and he's really enjoying that. I love to see him be more confident as he is learning and working. He's becoming very careful and aware of his words. 



-One of his favorite things to earn from our prize box is a date with mommy or daddy - and he almost always picks Ice Cream at Thanksgiving Point, with a walk to see the waterfall. We call it Austin's Waterfall because he enjoys it so much and it's a sweet thing about him. 


-He's a big helper, especially when we find a task that is fairly repetitive and that he enjoys. He shredded over 1,000 papers for me from a big stack of Primary binders along with some papers from our house. Seriously hundreds and hundreds of papers. As I'm typing this, he's currently in our basement (that we are working to finish) vacuuming sawdust up with a shop-vac simply because he wants to. 

-He LOVES helping me cook in the kitchen. He's easily my best helper in the kitchen and he really enjoys it. I wouldn't be surprised if he grows up to be a great chef someday. He's first in line to help me mix and make the pancakes or scoop the flour for homemade rolls. Making treats for Poetry Treat Time is his all-time fav. 



-He loves reading (listening to) simple chapter books with David and I. Dragon Masters was his favorite for a long time and now he's loving the Magic Tree House books. He has started listening to the audio books on my phone and he LOVES it.



-He is such a great brother. He's the sweetest brother to Lucy. I can't even describe the care that he takes of her. I have a video of him with her in the hospital and he's just saying over and over "I love you baby Lucy." That love hasn't faded over the last three months. He takes care of her, snuggles by her, brings her things he thinks she needs, makes Caleb be soft by her. The list goes on and on. 


(Pictured below: him making smoothie packets with me - one of his favorite things to make for breakfast. He can get the packet from the freezer, put the ice in, put the sugar in, and if the milk is low enough in the jug he can put the milk in, too. He can basically do it all by himself, except the lid to the blender is a little tricky and I usually help him with that.

Also, and Caleb have several matching pajamas. Whenever they are matching, they stick their tummies and out do their own version of a "chest bump" saying "MATCHERS!" )


-He loves his dad. The other day, in the middle of the day and out of the blue he said "I wish Dada was here. I love when he's home with us. I wish he could stay home with us all the time." (He calls David, Dada and I love it.) David is an exceptionally wonderful Dad, and Austin loves him. 



-Austin is moving all the time (unless he's concentrating on building something). He literally bounces from couch to couch to couch, flipping, landing, balancing. When I'm sitting reading him books, he is frequently doing sommersaults next to me, or flipping up and balancing on his head. He can even do a headstand and hold it for several seconds. 



(Pictured above, he was going down the driveway while riding on a skateboard over and over again and by the end he had worn his socks completely through. There were more holes than there was sock. (Why he wasn't wearing shoes? I don't know. I saw this, took a picture, and made him go inside to put shoes on.)


-He loves hiking in the mountains. Once we were at a Homeschool Camporee and he and Lydia were climbing around on a hill and he stepped in a big ant hill. The ants started climbing all over him and a few bit him. I ran up the mountainside, grabbed him, brought him back to the area where we were, pulled off his shirt and started pulling ants off from him. It was a little traumatic, but the next day he was still asking if we could go on a hike in the mountain. There is something about it that he really enjoys (which I'm glad for because I love it, too).


-He loves building things. He says that he wants to be a "machine maker" when he grows up. He's smart and clever and a great problem solver. It's so fun to watch him build with whatever materials he can find.

He loved riding his bike all summer long. By mid-summer he was riding with no training wheels and after that he wanted to be outside every single day! We love summer over here. 

-More summer fun: kayaking, paddle boarding, and tubing behind the boat. 

 

-His first talk in Primary! It was about how prophets lead us to Jesus and that we can be brave like the prophets and follow Jesus Christ. 




One of his favorite things to do with David is to go on a "date" to the carwash with him. They drive down to the Wiggy Wash and go through together. (We found a wiggy wash stand at the Orem Summerfest and Austin got to go through in a little toy car. He wasn't quite as impressed as the real thing. 


-I talked about him being a good brother to Lucy, but he's such a great brother to Lydia, too. They play really well together, but every once in a while I see that Lydia has convinced him to do that hard job while she gets the better part (i.e. him pushing her on the swing) and I have to step in and make sure that she takes her turn so he can have fun, too. (But sometimes, he really just is having fun doing the thing with her.) 


-Picking raspberries at Grandpa Peaden's house. 

-He learned how to go down the fireman pole and it was a huge success in his little life. At the time I felt like he hadn't had any big successes lately, and to see his confidence boost was really neat. Sometimes he'll ask if we can stop at the little park in our neighborhood on the way home and he will hop out, run up to the top of the playground, go down the fireman pole, then come jump back into the car. 




More pictures of summer fun, including the week that the Haderlie kids came to stay with us, which we all loved. 


End of summer - start of school!
Austin loved swimming at the pool this year and I loved watching how brave and confident he was.
We decided to have him to go a little neighborhood preschool in addition to his speech lesson each week. He also goes to a one-day a week spanish class with Lydia. It's a big schedule for him, but he seems to be enjoying it so far.  His favorite part of homeschool: Poetry Treat Time & the Art table. 


-We've been finishing our basement and Austin's been such a big helper! He helped us carry all of our wood for framing into the back yard, he's helped with little jobs along the way - like pushing up walls and pulling electrical wire, and he's done a great job of vacuuming and keeping the area clean. 


His favorite thing about us finishing our basement is all the little pieces of scrap wood that he's been able to collect, glue together, and build into "machines". One of the pictures above is a catapult that he built with Grandpa Walker at his house, but the other picture above is a creation that he glued together, and the one below is a dust-catcher that he specifically made to help catch the dust in the basement during construction. 


He doesn't like large groups of people. He is reserved and quiet when he gets into groups, and frequently has some anxiety leading up to the event if he knows that lots of people will be there. Church is a battle just to get him there, basically every Sunday, but once he gets there he's completely fine. He does better in smaller groups. Having Lydia home with us and being able to spend so much time together is such a blessing to both of them.


-We went to a "Love Letters" museum and his favorite thing was the typewriter. He spent the majority of his time there just typing away.

-It was my birthday this month, and Austin used his own money that he had been saving to buy me a wallet lanyard that I had been wanting for my birthday. He was so excited about it and insisted that he buy the whole thing on his own. 

-He went to California for the first time! We took a short little road trip out to visit my brother, his wife, and their new baby Juniper. He loved the ocean, the LaBrea tar pits, and watching shows in the van. 



-His favorite is blue "because it's not bright and I don't like bright stuff, I like dark stuff, and blue is dark". 




Oh Austin. We love you. We love your laugh and your smile and the goodness that you bring to our family.