First Fathers Day

Today is David's first official Fathers Day. We have had an incredibly crazy week trying to help get things ready for the wedding of Jeff (David's brother) and Kaylee (our newest-sister-in-law). We have hardly been home, and so any "big plans" I had for fathers day kind of fell by the wayside. However, I couldn't let this day pass without recording some thoughts I have about my dad and celebrating this day with David and our sweet daughter, Lydia.

Being a father is such a huge responsibility. In some ways, I think that it is even more important than being a mother. I attended a conference during this last school year where one of the presentations was focused on the difference that a father can make in a daughters life. Studies show that more than any other single person, a Father influences a daughters self-concept, confidence, ability to think, desire to do, and success through school (all the way through the college level.) I know that my own Father taught me to be proud of who I was, stand up for what I believed in, think the best of those around me, work hard, and love others. He taught me my word and by example. I know that his influence on my life shaped me to be who I am today. Davids dad, Cal, has had an equally profound influence on David - and I am grateful that we have both been blessed with such amazing fathers.

As I think about my relationship with my Dad and watch David as he cares for Lydia, I am amazed at how strong the bond between Father and Daughter is. David is a natural. He loves Lydia so much, and he is already the most incredible dad. Lydia will cry and cry, but if you pass her over to her dad she will calm. He sings her songs and she just looks up at him with her big blue eyes. I love to watch them together because of the love that is already so strong between them. I hope that someday she has the kind of relationship with David as I do with my dad. It is crazy to think of what the years will bring, but so incredibly exciting to think about how their love will just continue to grow as the years go by.

David, I think that you are the most amazing father already. You couldn't be more perfect for me, or for our little Lydia. Thank you for working so hard to provide for us and for loving us both so much. We love you and wish you a wonderful First Fathers Day.